Were you unsure of your loved ones' after death wishes?

I apologize I know I've written so many posts of my dad's battle with aggressive cancer and his passing. It's my only outlet really and it was so sudden it still feels like a blur ...

But now I'm wondering what my dad wished for after passing.. burial or cremation. My mom didn't ever discuss it either with him so she's doing cremation.
I guess I'm ok with it but I do wish he was at a cemetery. I guess also what matters most is that he's always with us in spirit.💞