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My oldest stepsister died this morning, the cause is uncertain, she has had complications from thyroid cancer surgery since late april.

She had been in the hospital since last thursday, they pulled a total of 11 liters of fluid out of her thoracic region and suddenly retained CO2 yesterday and was put on a bipap machine to pull it out, she asked to be taken off of it about 3pm yesterday as it felt torturous. My mother moved in with her into her house a year and a half ago rent free, just help with the utilities, food, and utility taxes, my stepsister was a retired prosecutor in the family court child support recovery section for eight surrounding counties. She owned her house outright, I have no idea where my mother will live, I am certain my stepsister did not leave her house to her in her will. In case you all are wondering, I was not particulary close to any of my stepsisters, her death does not really affect me much, my mother on the other hand was closer to her and my other much older stepsisters than to my older brothers and myself, because they were her much obsessed about "daughters" she always wanted to have herself, while we were merely only sons.
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meggie · F
Sorry to hear of your loss.i have step brother and sisters I've never met, so I know how you dont feel really connected. Shame your mum wasnt too bothered with you and your brothers. Have a nice christmas x
@meggie (((((HUGS))))) Thank You so very much, and You as well 😊🤗❤
Punxi · F
I'm very sorry my friend. I send to you my heart and prayers. 🩷🙏🏻✝
@Punxi I just got off the phone with my mother, she is taking it very hard as they were very close, I had to remind her that my stepsister has been sick for most of the year, that she was worn down, that she is now out of pain and suffering.
Punxi · F
@NativePortlander1970 My faith insists she healed my friend. Death is not the opposite of life for life is eternal.

I hope you can stay strong for her. A mothers love knows no bounds.

Praying for strength for you all.

🙏🏻
@Punxi Joaquin was a humble devout believer, I believe she was.
Lilymoon · F
I'm very sorry for your loss 💐
@Lilymoon (((((HUGS))))) Thank You so very much 😊🤗❤
Lilymoon · F
Very sorry to hear of this.
Musicman · 61-69, M
I am sorry for your loss. Family is family. 💔😥
@FreeSpirit1 (((((HUGS))))) Thank You so very much 😊🤗❤

 
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