It’s all perspective brother. Your father isn’t gonna be in pain anymore and he’s going on the best vacation we could ever imagine, with all his loved ones long since passed. Celebrate his life, and make sure to tell him “you love him” and that “you forgive him” before he goes on his journey. Untill you see him again on the other side of the river
Trust me bro, the absolute worst part about death is the suffering and the build up to it. You’ll see, he’ll be finally at peace when it’s done. You just gotta be strong.
-Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. It is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self. Therefore, trust the physician and drink his remedy in silence and tranquility.