If your SO died, how deep would be the personal crisis?

Do you know who you are without your spouse? Your identity is tied to it

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If i was still with my ex. I would be really sad yes. But i wouldnt be completely surprised. She has a nack of trusting the wrong people and getting into serious danger. One of the reasons we just cant be together. I never relied on her. I was the backbone for eveything. We needed my money and it was up to me to solve all the problems. Mentally and physically. It was draining and she only sometimes respected me, when it was suitable for her or infront of other people. Letting her go actually made my life easier.