DreamJelly · 22-25, M
I love your courage to show yourself as you want to be. I bet both genders flirt with you knowing you are a feminine male.
XxEllaxRawrxX · 13-15
I feel this so much! As a young child I always found myself dressing in different types of clothing, sometimes in bright, sparkly dresses and sometimes wanting to be in a suit and tie. Around 2 years ago I started to dress alternative and, in a goth/punk rock kinda style so I've been mainly wearing baggy clothes and whatnot which has kind of helped with how I feel about my body (my chest and how skinny I am). Lately I've really wanted to cut my hair short and get it all fluffy but my parents won't even let me cut it to my shoulders.. Anyways I've always have this feeling like I wasn't born in the right body or just something was missing from my life, well long story short I'm a therian (have been for about 1.5 yrs) and I feel like I might be trans (ftm) but I am utterly terrified to even bring it up to my parents (I'm also bisexual so that doesn't lighten the blow AT ALL 😭)

SW-User
I appreciate this post, thank you. I'm glad you have talked with someone and have made the decision with advice and guidance.
I might be a rare person on here (there are others) that recognizes, and respects, we are not all born with physical features that match our inner and outer social/sexual (I call social) nature.
Thank you for sharing.
I might be a rare person on here (there are others) that recognizes, and respects, we are not all born with physical features that match our inner and outer social/sexual (I call social) nature.
Thank you for sharing.
Dicey · 31-35, F
@SW-User Thanks for your reply! I appreciate that you believe me when I talk about how my inner self doesn't match my outer self. I'm hopeful that they will match in the future.

SW-User
@Dicey I think that is for you to find out, and how. You are making steps, and I do forget how hard it is for some, so take this of me as encouragement. 🤗
One of the most honest and wholesome posts I've read on here. This is not an easy thing to share and makes me understand Trans people a bit better. Good luck on your journey.
Dicey · 31-35, F
@Wallflow3r Thanks! It warms my heart to know that I'm being honest when, for a long time, it felt like I was being dishonest. I appreciate your reply.
@Dicey No problem💕

SW-User
It takes courage to share something like this, or even explore your truth. Your acceptance of yourself as well as the limitations you will have is humbling.
Dicey · 31-35, F
@SW-User Thanks for your reply. It was scary because I was worried that what I would uncover would ruin my life. Now, I think things are going to be okay and I have a lot of hope for the future.
Scribbles · 36-40, F
I love this post! Good luck! 🤗
Jessmari · 46-50
It seems you have had a long time to consider this. I get the need to be percieved a certain even if you didn't understand it at the time. I know the feeling of what if things were different. Good luck with your journey.
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PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Congratulations on finding your true self. Transition will take time. How does your wife feel about having a woman as a spouse instead of a man?
Ontheroad · M
Wow! Just wow! I wish only the best for you in your journey and applaud and recognize what it took to write this post. I admire you so much... such bravery is not often seen.
Oh, and your wife - she is a 100% keeper!
Oh, and your wife - she is a 100% keeper!
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
No harm in experimenting but remember your inner character. Exterior is always going to change. It's how we are from inside matters.
Dicey · 31-35, F
@littlepuppywantanewlife Thanks. You're absolutely right that inner character matters most. I'll strive to be a good person.
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
@Dicey 🙂
Panamared · 70-79, M
You must have been made on a monday, that is when most mistakes are made on the assembly line, so glad you finally found you and have a wife that encouraged you, find happiness
Cantsayno · 56-60, M
Congratulations on your transfer and being honest with yourself and people on here.
dale74 · M
Just because you cut it off will never make you a female You will never know what it's like to have a menstrual cycle. You will never know what it feels like to give child birth.
Panamared · 70-79, M
For give me for what i just said, i called you a mistake, that may have come across cruel, when i tried to be funny, my bad
Jessmari · 46-50
Apparently, I liked this post a long time ago and now feel bad about being a smart ass on the other one 🥺
@Dicey just be careful. people are mean and I get super protective because my best friend my whole life was trans, and she took her own life over 20 years ago. I just want people to be okay. And I get scared, sometimes.
Dicey · 31-35, F
@JustGoneNow I'm sorry that that happened to your best friend and how that must have affected you 🙁 I hope you've been able to find some peace with it
@Dicey I did find some healing by posting about it. It was way emotional for me, so I did it in sections but this links to all of them if you’d like to read.
https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4412503-My-memorial-to-my-friend-Part-1-thoughts-personal
https://similarworlds.com/thoughts/personal-feelings/4412503-My-memorial-to-my-friend-Part-1-thoughts-personal
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
Thank you for writing this. It was moving!
Torsten · 36-40, M
and your wife is cool with that?
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Very brave of you to explain yourself 😊😊
bluegrasslover · 41-45, M
I love your story❤💋
YoMomma ·
Let me know which ones are yours so i can unblock em (i need space) 😅 gahh
REMsleep · 41-45, F
Becareful. Sometimes things can feel like a fix for a certain feeling when its not. Feelings are a funny thing and getting caught in the excitement of doing something that we never knew was possible is intoxicating.
Light and love. Be safe and be well.
mtf classics
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
@fakable I just googled it and found some asian female costumes 🤣
@littlepuppywantanewlife
google is weird
google is weird
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
@fakable that's true 🤣
LordShadowfire · 46-50, M
Wow. That puts your other post into perspective. I wish you the best in whatever you do.
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