I miss her

We're still friends and talk when we get time, but sometimes I miss her as a partner. I get why we broke up, but she was genuinely amazing in every way and if not for distance, I could have seen myself maybe even marrying her one day. But it is what it is and I don't begrudge her for the breakup. Sometimes feelings can just be hard to shake, and this is very much a once in a while thing and not an everyday thing. Like I'm over it, but I don't know if I'll ever stop loving her. Does that even make sense?

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Levenrack · 46-50, M

Is it actually cannot change or not willing to change? I felt the same way my first two serious relationships. There's only so much you can do, other than evolving or reinventing yourself.
It will get better. Just keep working on yourself in the meantime, particularly your mental health. Physical health is important too, it does ties into how your functioning mentally and as a whole. If you're struggling with certain aspects. Ask for help. There's no shame in trying to improve yourself and there is help. 🤗

KiwiDan · 31-35, M

@Levenrack I'm not sure. Maybe both?