I'm just going to say this ...

It takes me time to process things from the past ...so if it seems like I'm holding a grudge ...I'm not ...I'm only dealing with it now .....my brain needs time and space to process things ....so when someone says
" get over it" I most certainly will ...in my own time and in my own way ...

* random brain dump*

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catastrophecarnival Pinned Comment

I need to process in drips ...tiny drips ...the harder it is to talk about the harder it is for me to process and the longer it takes

MarbleMarvel

I completely understand this. It's so hard when people expect you to process things instantly and you just need some time. Not everyone is fast.

catastrophecarnival

@MarbleMarvel It depends on what it was to be honest.

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

Take all the time you need. There is no timestamp on emotions. You are allowed to feel however you need to feel for as long as you need to feel it, and there is no getting over it, there's only getting through it, and you will get through it, in your own time 🫂

SkeetSkeet · 100+, F

I'm the same way 🫂

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