I couldn't swim at least not in a serious way. I'm from the Mojave desert water enough to swim in was more just to play. I never really developed any actual technique. I can swim pretty good now just from. Youtube videos.

For both of your safety, make sure to tell your instructor about your higher level fear.

I think it's admirable that you have enrolled in a swimming class. It may be easier than you think. 😊

I’ll teach you.

My boyfriend is the same as you.

It is, most certainly, a life enhancing, and potentially a life saving, skill

Of course you can
Will be wonderful
Enjoy
Be brave

That’s not ridiculous
If you never learned when you were younger you never would
Good luck with your class
You’ll do great!

I think it’s a great idea that you’re willing to learn to swim. Face your fear head on and finally be able to enjoy swimming as a recreation. It’s great exercise too!

An important skill to have, I taught myself at about age 5. I did not want to be out done by my older brothers. I love the water.
You never know you could end up in the water by accident. Being able to swim to safety is preferred.

I'm sure you'll do fine

EVERYONE needs to know how to swim

Tell them you're scared..take it slow and see how it goes, don t feel pressured into doing anything you don't feel.ok with..I hate water too..😘

More common than you think, there are athletes who don't know how to swim.

It’s easier than you may think, my grandmother never learned to swim until after I pushed her in the pool they had , I never knew she couldn’t swim, scared the crap out of both of us , so do yourself and learn how

You have made the right decision. Wish you the best.

My cousin didn’t know how to swim we went into the main pool area where it was a certain level, but, it was deep, I taught her how to swim for free!!! There’s no need to be afraid try a shallow area then use a floating device like a paddle board or one of those tubes , to help you float

You've got this

No where near as embarrassing as drowning unnecessarily.... You're doing the right thing... Is never too late to learn something new... Enjoy

If you don't overcome your fear of water, you will always be scared.

It is very admirable that you are facing your fear head on. Well done. Once you realize you are able to keep yourself afloat you will feel much more comfortable.

Don’t sweat it.

I also never learned how to swim. There’s a humourus story about it that’s too long to post.

But I’m sure there are other things you can do instead.

You can swim... if you don't panic and freeze up. Facing a fear is a huge step, good on you! Just be sure the coach/instructor knows of your fears, and don't feel embarrassed, they have heard it before.

Get in like 3 1/2 to 4’ of water. Hold your nose and close your eyes and let yourself go under. Relax and you will float back up. It might take several tries but when you’re comfortable try to lean forward while floating. You’ll soon realize as long as you’re holding your breath you’ll stay floating. Then when you’re ready simply start kicking and paddle your hands while floating. Presto you’re swimming and then start breathing while kicking and paddling your hands. Nothing to it.

Your parents are the ones that should be embarrassed. Kids need to learn at an early age.

I've got a few years on you and have never learned to swim. And it nearly cost me my life at one juncture, and still never got up sufficient desire, or found the time, to learn how as an adult.

Otoh, my mother-in-law took lessons and learned to swim when she was nearly 70. Enjoyed it immensely.

I salute your courage, and echo the advice of someone else who suggested you warn the instructor that you have a high fear index to overcome. Your body is buoyant to some degree, but not when tense and dealing with survival fears.

Wow, you have such problems