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Do u believe it's ok for women to sleep around 🤔 👙

Someone asked me the other day.... would I marry a woman who slept with 50 guys. I told them no. Does it really matter ? Some people believe that it's ok for a woman who is selective to sleep with as many men as she wants.
Some say it's female liberation. Some say it's freedom. Some say yes, it's ok for a woman to share herself with as many people as she wants just like men do. And that because it's a woman's body, she should be allowed to do what she [b]wants to do.[/b] Do you believe that this is ok ?
Yes or no. The floor is yours. ☺ 👙





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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
I don't think anyone should sleep around. Better to have value placed on your body and self respect, that pleasure is so much sweeter when it's with someone you love and who respects you and wants you to have a great time rather than just temporarily meet their needs.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@PatientlyWaiting25 True. But some suffer from lust of the flesh. So this type of immorality erodes our society.
PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@Zonuss Well 'lust of the flesh' sounds like a fun affliction but... sex toys? Rarely a regretful evening, they don't make you feel crappy or give you a disease.
22Michelle · 70-79, T
My opinion, now I'm older and look back, is that there's quite a few people I should have had sex with, whilst there are also those I should have avoided. And my advice to all is sex is fun, the best fun you might ever have. However, be careful who with, why.and try to ensure you can remember who with and why. And be nice to those people, something I often wasn't
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@22Michelle What changed you.🤔
22Michelle · 70-79, T
@Zonuss Experience, not being a drunk, accepting my own sexuality. And yes, accepting, not just paying lip service too, that women are my equal and should be respected.
BohoBabe · M
Yes. I haven't heard any arguments against sex positivity that weren't religious or otherwise just tradition or emotion.

The closest thing to a real argument I've heard is that there's a better chance of catching an STD, but that applies to men too.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@BohoBabe But it's not always religious. You people overuse that word.
BohoBabe · M
@Zonuss I said it's either religious or otherwise tradition or emotion. Some people aren't religious but still have double standards on gender and sexuality because that's just what feels right to them. That's pure emotion and based on patriarchal tradition.
I have had a lover who had probably slept with 50 people before me. She was very exciting in bed -- very in touch with her own body and very good at giving and receiving pleasure.
So from a purely selfish point of view, if I were looking for a wife, having had 50 lovers before me would certainly not count against her.
exexec · 70-79, C
I don't know my wife's number before we married (fewer than 50 for sure), but it made no difference in our relationship.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@exexec Ok cool.
Sure, it's OK. Just as it is ok for me to not fraternize with them. That's MY choice.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@RogueLodyte Hmmmmm. Interesting. Fraternize. ☺
I agree with feminists, that there was a major mathematical problem with the standard of sexual permissiveness between men and women in the 60s, but the equality solution was handled the worst way possible. And like a few feminist successes, this was beneficial to men since it just opened more options for them
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP Do you think the feminist movement worked.🤔
@Zonuss I think it's more helpful to talk about it in terms of level of success and in what areas. I won't hear a word against women's shelters, but success in achieving equality in the workplace is mixed. But what's truly amazing is how they were able normalize mass murder!
Zonuss · 46-50, M
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
If men can do it and women still marry them why can't it be the other way around?
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Prettybratbi1tch Because we live in a society that tolerates mens sexuality over women's. Especially in a male dominated society. A religious patriarchy like system. I know I know. It may not be fair but that's what it is. ☺
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Prettybratbi1tch I never would have married a man who got around.
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
Not for me, but I think society don't mind as long as you've got everyone too scared to say anything about it. 🙊🤐
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@FloorGenAdm Why do you think people are too scared to speak on this
Even in 2026. 🤔
FloorGenAdm · 51-55, M
@Zonuss The inner circles are still tight and under control.
TheRealBarbossa · 36-40, T
People are free to sleep with as few or many people as they wish as long as it's fully concentual, in non-public settings, they do it safely, and take responsibility for any consequenses that may occur.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
I don't care what other people do with their bodies as long as it's consensual.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
I believe that it is not the governments business to say who anyone sleeps with or how frequently they slept with anyone.
swirlie · 31-35
Yes I do think it's okay. But it would only be okay for her and everyone else involved IF she lived in a cultural environment that was progressive enough to understand a woman's needs and desires.

A progressive culture is not a conservative culture, which means that any country that currently has or at least once had strong political or economic ties to the British Commonwealth, would not be country that is inherently liberal in it's progressive mindedness.
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@swirlie Look who's here
The uh man I mean woman of the year.
The great Swirlie. 🤣
Stuffy · 61-69, F
Well you assumed it’s ok for men. If so it is ok for women. Why would it be different? So she can more easily id the baby daddy?
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Zonuss for the record I’m all in for modesty ( covering) unless in community defined as nudist. And I think all people should strive to be the best they can in all ways including sexual restraint.
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Zonuss · 46-50, M
@Stuffy Nudity is the norm in certain cultures. So anyway.☺
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Why should there be a double standard?😷
Stuffy · 61-69, F
@Zonuss I’m sure many would disagree that women represent those things.
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Zonuss · 46-50, M
@whowasthatmaskedman By nature and by design it is that way. But we do have a society that encourages us to have boundaries and standards for ourselves.
are these the pictures of the women you slept with? 🤔
CreyvinMoorhead · 36-40, M
YOU can't stop it

Approx 75 % do or have
Zonuss · 46-50, M
@CreyvinMoorhead Hmmmmm. 🤔

 
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