I feel so fucken lost All i want in my life is to be love and love someone. I know I have my...

ScreamingFox · 41-45, F

This is common unfortunately. There are lots of women and men too who get fooled into believing they will have the life of love they want, only to find out in time this person can't hold up the facade they used to get you and keep you.

I'm sorry.

I left a marriage like that 8-9 years ago and it's not easy either way.

We have to be very very very careful who we choose especially with our child to watch after. I've chosen to stay alone because I kept running into the same people. The love bombers and the honeymooner's. You likely want something for the duration. Someone who will put that effort in genuinely and consistently, just as you are capable of doing. But not many people are capable.

PHlover19701 · 56-60, M

Knowing you deserve more and admitting it is the first step. You should be treat how you want to be....finding the right person is the task. I understsnd the physical needs, but dont shy away from an online relationship...they can be rewarding too.

Blondily · F

Years ago, same thing happened to me but worse. I took my almost 2 year old and fled. Never looked back. Married a nice man who treated my child as his own. Leave him, you wont be sorry!

Cowboybob · M

I am so sorry to hear this. If you can learn to first love yourself and find confidence in that, then others will learn to love you too!

Kinkyvisions · 41-45, M

If possible take a break from your relationship. Living alone and managing a baby will be a monumental task but if possible take help of your family. I think you might have to recover and eventually look for a fresh start.

Fillingthevoid · 51-55, M

I am truly sorry you was treated in a way that messes with your self worth. Good news is you will most likely demand better going forward. But for now like the saying goes “I would rather my bed be empty than have the wrong person in it”