I failed horribly at socializing tonight.

but you too the step

focus on that!

probably the next few dates will be throwaways - you don't need a new one right now do you?

next time - think about the small talk as a way for the person to reveal their thoughts and viewpoints.

and ask him about him - he'll carry the conversation and think you are a great conversationalist

I'd love to hear about your life, travel, experiences. You've lived a full life so far. 🤗

I'm horrible at small talk. Wish I wasn't - I think it'd ease some of my social anxiety. But I'd lose interest anyway.

It’s hard to just interact sometimes. I tend to focus on asking questions. But a lot depends on the crowd.

I do, I fail at socializing too for about the same reasons. I am either too quiet or talk too much about too deep of things.

I feel that but I thinn for different reasons. Often I'm perfectly content just sitting with other people and watching tbe stars or fire and saying little while wondering why the others feel the need to always be talking and doing so with the most mundane shit imaginable. It often makes me feel uncomfortable and exhausted. I know Im weird in this way but often I'm wondering why as friends we cant all be comfortable just experiencing together and have to keep forcing talk.

I miss that kind of thing.

That’s kind of why I don’t bother much anymore.

totally my style fox

Yes. Let's

Yes! I hate normal talk.

Sounds much better.

In which direction do you want to develop your mind?

Bruh same