The board is being so supportive in me having to deal with the manager while she trains me

They are making sure there will always be a board member present so she can't push me around and be unprofessional or abusive

I feel guilty because of how upset this is all making her (even despite her leaving voluntarily).

I will now be the next villain in her story that was once a friend, and is now an enemy. Usurping her place at market and turning everyone against her

I don't care.

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

Stick to your guns lady. Let her have her story. But I’m so glad the board is looking out for you. Was wondering how the transition was gonna go but always having a board member present should make it a whole lot easier.

Proud of you! You’ve come such a long way! 🙂

caccoon · 36-40

@OlderSometimesWiser thank you so much!!!!

BillyMack · 46-50, M

They made the move for a reason, and you were picked for a reason. You don’t owe her anything. Keep on rocking.

caccoon · 36-40

@BillyMack aww thank you!!

BillyMack · 46-50, M

@caccoon you’re welcome. ☺

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

Watch for ways she will deliberately train you wrong or sabotage you and write them down. I've directly dealt with this before.

caccoon · 36-40

@CountScrofula mostly what she does is try to withhold information because she wants to be the only one that knows.

I will make sure I keep track! The board has asked me to document these things as well.

She is sending passive aggressive emails to the city staff and CC'ing me, but I can tell she is just having a meltdown

I appreciate your wisdom!

onrealityofdreams · M

And "I don't care" is precisely the attitude you should take. You are too smart and too good to lower yourself to her level. The market and people are your focus, and that is why your rightful place is manager.

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caccoon · 36-40

@onrealityofdreams it's so true. And I know I am badmouthing her on here but I keep it very professional at the market.

I didn't even bring up a lot of the things she has done or said, but they know. And one of the board members DOES know and I think relayed it to the rest of the board.

Anyway, yes. Positive looking forwards. I am excited for the future

onrealityofdreams · M

@caccoon And I'M excited for you!!

caccoon · 36-40

@onrealityofdreams me too!! It's really amazing!

AbsolutelyFabulous · F

Her behaviour is on her, that's a HER problem.

This is how bullies act, getting all sad and feeling sorry for themselves when they are called out for their atrocious behaviour

caccoon · 36-40

@AbsolutelyFabulous I'm really disappointed in her, but also I know she is deeply fked up.

I am just happy it will be over in less than a month now. I feel so anxious

Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69

Stay the course youve come out on top

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caccoon · 36-40

@AlienTheExtraterrestrial fuck yeah 💅💅

I mean really I enact the board's wishes but I love that 💙 it's nice to have guidance.

But I think I am a good and strong leader surprisingly. I know I am good at comforting people and resolving conflict, and I can stand up to people when I need to

AlienTheExtraterrestrial · 36-40, F

@caccoon

caccoon · 36-40

@AlienTheExtraterrestrial I love this

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