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My ex that strangled me texted me at 4am this morning to ask me out for coffee

I recently forgave him for what he did a year ago, when I saw him at a social event.

I am happy with the peace.

Since I have gotten a new phone, I didn't have his number or have it blocked.

I should not reply, right? Or should I just say no thank you and explain why?
caccoon
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
I'd ignore it. As soon as you engage he's gonna be the nice guy, until he's not. And personally I'd be afraid he was just trying to get even or something weird.
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@caccoon I get that feeling too... But you need an iron wall to keep that one out
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caccoon · 36-40
@ScreamingFox thank you girl 💙💙💙

I'm sending love and hugs your way because you're a fkn beautiful human being. 💙💙💙🌸🌸🌸
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ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
@caccoon no you 🖤
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froggtongue · M
Either of those would be okay. You owe him nothing. If you text back, be definite. Problem with the latter is that he might consider any type of engagement as positive even if you're telling him otherwise and it might suck you into more conversation with him.
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caccoon · 36-40
@froggtongue yeah. 💙💙 I think ignoring him is the better option. It feels a little hard to do, but it shouldn't.
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froggtongue · M
@caccoon it can feel that way. Emotions are valid. The better we know our own, the better we navigate them.
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Bexsy
I'd ignore. Not answer. Or can pretend wrong number
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Notsimilarreally · 31-35, F
@Bexsy same

I like the wrong number idea
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Bexsy
@Notsimilarreally me too, that way maybe he'll delete number
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SlippingAway ·
I'd just say no thanks and leave it at that
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Straylight · 31-35, F
A reasonable answer. It’s not like things ended amicably
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Straylight · 31-35, F
Did I have a stroke writing this? 😂
Fixed it.
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caccoon · 36-40
@Straylight I understood!! 💙💙
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Classified · M
Forgiving doesn't mean you want contract with the person again. You can ignore him.
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OlderSometimesWiser · F
I’d treat that text like nuclear waste. You owe him no contact nor explanations nor polite no thank yous.
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Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Graciously decline!!
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ToLivePeacefully · 31-35, M
I would recommend ignoring.
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MyNameIsHurl · 41-45, F
Ignore and block
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Elessar · 31-35, M
Don't reply, or reply something like "who's this?" so they think they have the wrong number

Then blacklist
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Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Ignore you don't owe him anything
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