Something is wrong.

I think I might be deeply lonely but not in a way that allows bad people to stay in my life. I have boundaries and standards. I have people who come and go from my life. I don’t know exactly what is wrong. I feel hopeless sometimes but not suicidal or anything like harming myself. I just feel like nothing will ever change. Despite all this I continue to work and seek out social connections. I know I need to change my patterns but it gets lost in my procrastination and exhaustion.

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

Humans are social creatures and feeling the way that you feel is normal. I think everyone has had that fear at some time or another. You need someone in your life whose going to motivate you. That's the only way that you are going to feel complete. And it doesn't necessarily mean a spouse or mate, it could also be a friend. Being alone and feeling lonely isn't working.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

Is it like an emptiness? Like you wish you felt more fulfilled? Or any subconscious fear?

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Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Muthafukajones Abnormal, in what way? Side note..you're not abnormal 🐞🌸

Muthafukajones · 46-50, M

@Coralmist My therapist says that too. He’s insisted that a lot of the things I feel are totally normal.

Coralmist · 41-45, F

@Muthafukajones You are a human being... With fears, or worries, and it's Def normal. I do fear being alone a lot😢 I'm trying so hard to feel worthy of love but years and years of trauma don't just fade with a snap of a finger. And it's like what if I can't heal this fear, of being unworthy? I'll just always be alone?? It's heartbreaking sometimes but I try to go walk or not worry. So you are Def. Not alone in your thoughts or worries 🌻

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