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My ex reached out on my birthday

I haven’t spoken to him in over 1 year and he basically told me happy birthday and explained why he couldn’t be with me. Why would he reach out to me on my birthday just to explain to me why he didn’t want to be with me 🙃
G0ddess · F
He’s just trying to keep your attention, you’re too pretty to not move on in life there are way better men out there
LookingForTheSummer · 31-35, M
@G0ddess What does looks have to do with this? What if she wasn't pretty?
G0ddess · F
@LookingForTheSummer as a man you should know how much power a pretty girl holds
Monalisaa1986 · 36-40, F
@G0ddess I’m not pretty and I have rich men after me , rich and famous, they could have super models but they want me
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Sounds like he was attention seeking, shit testing to see if he still has his claws in because it’s an ego boost for him.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Ironicman · 56-60, M
Suspect he suffers narcissistic personality disorder. Don't waste anytime pondering over him.
PinkMoon · 26-30, F
Your ex is a narcissist
Anielka · F
Just a booty call.
iamBen · M
Can't be with you and don't want to be with you aren't the same thing. Maybe it was a weak attempt to see if you would suggest ways you could be together. Kind of a lame thing to do, IMO, but maybe they were trying to see if you're still interested.
butterflybaby75 · 46-50, F
He's trying to get back into your life and using your birthday as the stepping stone to re-start the relationship. Remember an ex is an ex for a reason and should always stay an ex forevermore.
maskedbandit · 56-60, M
Maybe because he is in secured and is trying to tell you he made a mistake. Sometimes the obvious isn't always obvious.
Old technic to get the attention. No contact method used to work in the past but not anymore.
deadteddy · 26-30, F
Some men like to do that to keep you as a plan b if the thing with the other girl doesn’t work out.
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This would have been good enough even for him. Nothing more.
nacnud · 31-35, M
I'd suggest blocking his number. You are better off without him and deserve better.
deadgerbil · 22-25
Bc he's an ass, so don't entertain any attempt by him to reach out again
Livingwell · 61-69, M
Happy Birthday sweet lady. Hope it was a good one. Good to see you. 🤗
Cuda6868 · 51-55, M
Seems rather peculiar on his part, maybe looking for a possible in?
ABCDEF7 · M
Maybe he expected that you will forgive him on that day.
AstroZombie · 36-40, M
I couldn't even begin to tell you. But happy belated birthday.
Maybe he thought it was the right time.
Domking · 61-69, M
An ex in an [b]X[/b]
Don't bother with [b]Y?[/b]

Just let it [b]Z[/b]
WillaKissing · 56-60
I hope it gave your peace of mind and closure!
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Borderline personality. Did you respond?
Tobasco · 31-35, F
Perhaps you should have asked him that
SW-User
Sounds like it’s good he is an ex.
That took a lot of courage but yeah
Theandyb · 36-40, M
That is a bit of a dick move.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Probably self justification
Japrost · 41-45, M
Why didnt he tell you that a yr ago
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
Because he's stupid 👀
maskedbandit · 56-60, M
Happy birthday! 🙂
Happy Birthday 🎁🎂
496sbc · 36-40, M
Some birthday present. 🙁
caccoon · 36-40
Because he's a fucker that wants to be with you for his own benefit and therefore needs to make it about himself
SW-User
Setting a bait to catch a tasty fish
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