I don't mean someone who cut you off in traffic or forgot your birthday. I mean someone who can peg the DSM meter(Criteria below) You need not satisfy every one. They're the worst.
Got it? Anyone you know with this disorder?
For me, it's my girlfriend's mother. I won't bore you with everything; suffice it to say that nothing you do is ever good enough(or even the "right" thing). I've been criticized harshly for: --Bringing her brownies from the bakery --Visiting sick family members in the hospital --Attending the wake and funeral of my girlfriend's father(her husband; I actually got a "review")
Years ago, I was informed that she kept in regular touch with my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend. Then she wonders why I want nothing to do with her.
Today, I found out that she talks to his family too.
The ex died two years ago.
This is what I'm talking about.
Anyone else dealing with these loathsome individuals?
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My mother fits most of that criteria. (let's not get into too much detail) Cause of her bullshit no family member can stand her. Grandparents kicked her out when she was 16. Didn't even notice her 3 year old son had a broken arm till a week after it happened. Dad had had enough and left by the time I was 12. She had 4 sons. 3 of us runaway from home. Tried to commit suicide. Ended up drifting and homeless. 2 of my brothers have been on drugs since they were old enough to get it. They would never visit her sober.. She lies constantly. causing drama wherever she goes.
Because she is so nice and convincing to strangers or friends. I have avoided talking to these people cause I don't want to get caught in her lies.
@Thevy29 Yes...my sis had a broken leg and was told she was being Fresh because she "wouldn't " stand up. She waited 2 days with a broken leg in agony because my mom thought she was just being fresh. 👀😑👀i(she was 5 yrs old). And has twisted things beyond BELIEF to others about me. She came home from a friends once and said "C thinks you are very Disobedient " We literally did anything she ever said as kids and were threatened for ANYTHING and I am disobedient????? I felt like someone had punched me, for them to just lie to another like that. 🙁
