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Life Update: I'm now a single father

So life has been hectic... Which is partly why I haven't been around.

I split with my wife (now ex) after she got busy with my own cousin... Yeah you read that right lol. That episode had me 铆n a total mess mentally, but I managed to pull through.

So my twin daughters and my son decided to live with me and together we have faced many new challenges, but we are coming out victorious!

I had another relationship about a year after, but that also didn't work as the lady just couldn't be faithful ... I guess I just attract cheaters 馃ぃ.

So I have decided to just give up on trying to find someone new and relationships altogether as these days it seems love is almost non-existent.

So that's my brief update, though I clearly skipped many details or this post would turn into a book 馃ぃ
eyenoM
Good for you
Being a single dad myself brought me a whole new outlook on life. The work is hard but the rewards are tremendous in my own development.

Seeing your child strike out on their own is a reward in its self and made me feel very proud that I undertook the task.

Good fortune to you and may your children bring you much happiness throughout your life.

iMysteryM
@eyeno Thanks chief
I feel for you, I can't make heads or tails of how people find themselves involved with cheaters, again and again, but have learned the healthier you are yourself, the better chance you meet someone healthy. The deeper the knife, the longer the wound, and those with hurt attract each other....

The books been written before.

I hope you only find healing.
iMysteryM
You are a great dad! Concentrate on yourself. And your kids. Some great woman will come along. Do not be surprised that she has kids too. Cheaters exist. True love does to. Have fun!
iMysteryM
@PoetryNEmotion Thanks but for now I'm out off by the idea of a relationship again. But who knows what the distant future holds
Busybee33331-35, F
Proceed to continue loving yourself and your children every day to the max + go out and do[i] many[/i] things that you always wanted but never did.

Some days, go out without a reason, just like that. Do whatever comes to mind once out.

Humor, keep the humor alive...it gives that extra spice to life.

Don't seek someone else; rather, find yourself and treat yourself better.

You never know, you might accidentally meet someone more like the new, free, and better you. But if you don't, it won't matter because you would already feel fulfilled, with all that self-renewable love in your heart. 馃檪

Best of luck and may you have amazing adventures with your children.
ImpeccablyImperfect51-55, F
Ouch
Damn, I鈥檓 sorry man (for the cheaters part)
Being cheated on [b]changes[/b] a person!


Your kids are lucky to have you though. Do right by them and you鈥檒l have no regrets 馃┑
Jeephikelove46-50, F
Oh wow! Sorry to hear about how your ex-wife, cousin and ex-girlfriend treated you. 馃槧
You and your kids will be happy together. 馃
iMysteryM
@Jeephikelove Thanks and yes we are happy despite some challenges. 馃
SumKindaMunster51-55, M
Welcome back, that's some serious drama you are dealing with, kudos to you for continuing to be a responsible father.
iMysteryM
@SumKindaMunster Thanks brother
Quimliqer70-79, M
It鈥檚 great to hear you and your children are healthy and well. Keep being their guidepost!!
iMysteryM
@Quimliqer Thank you
romell51-55, M
You are strong shall come through this storm too ,in some places this would have resulted in swords being unsheathed ,but guess you are not doing so appreciate that ,cut the cancer n move on buddy!
iMysteryM
@romell Funny you should mention swords lol... I had one at the time and had to really control myself so as not to unsheath it lol
Banksy8336-40, M
Your twin daughters and your son live with you ....that shows how you are thought of as a dad and what a waste of time your ex wife is. I say to hell with the exs you dont need them
iMysteryM
@Banksy83 You can say that again 馃ぃ
AlchemyFox36-40, F
Cheers to you!

Single parenting is not easy at all. I also gave up on dating and just focus on my kiddo, it鈥檚 better that way.

Good to see you again 馃枻
iMysteryM
@AlchemyFox You got that right!

And hey!! I see you remembered the black heart 馃枻鈽猴笍
WhatLifeIsFor41-45, M
man.ncivam glad youvare out of mess... hope you and your kids will be victorious..... just enjoy the life
iMysteryM
@WhatLifeIsFor Oh I am enjoying the life alright 馃ぃ
WhatLifeIsFor41-45, M
@iMystery that is great... keep it up
Iwantyourhotwife22-25
The trash has to be taken out. I am glad you didn't hesitate and left them

You deserve better and you can hopefully find the one
iMysteryM
@Iwantyourhotwife Thanks but right now I have no interest in a relationship anymore
helenS36-40, F
I would probably be unhappy with a man who put a "Private Property" tag on me.
iMysteryM
@helenS I am a bit lost on what you mean...
Starcrossed41-45, F
That sounds like a rough couple of years. I'm sorry.
iMysteryM
@Starcrossed Yeah I guess I was lol. But I'm good now
Donotfolowme51-55, F
Oh well!! All the best 馃憤

 
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