What does it feel like to be loved?
I don't think I'll ever know what it's like.
41-45, F
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It feels warm and powerful like you can take over the world. They become all u think of and they also think in you. There’s an element of fear of not really knowing what the other feels and a sensation of safety that they feel the same way. The happiness this brings makes you feel like your on top of the world. Like nothing else matters because no longer will you deal with it alone. It feels wonderful. But the magic is hard to find.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@userfawkes1105 yeah it is. Sounds like it makes you feel warm and safe
@Lilliesandlight it’s the most powerful feeling. Truth is that it’s mostly over looked now and most of it is just a rush for sex. But when u feel the actual connection it feels warm and the trust some one else puts in you and you in them makes u feel like u got super powers and the source is them it feels amazing they choose you because they are like your secret drug that gives your life that hit of color vs the regular black and white. Like I said most times this magic is not found or emotions mistake it’s identity.
originnone · 61-69, M
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@originnone 🫂
fun4us2b · M
Well - here is something I've posed many times , and has fallen mostly on deaf ears - from the Ballad of the Sad Café
It is for this reason that most of us would rather love than be loved. Almost
everyone wants to be the lover. And the curt truth is that, in a deep secret way, the state
of being be loved is intolerable to many. The beloved fears and hates the lover, and with
the best of reasons. For the lover is forever trying to strip bare his beloved. The lover
craves any possible relation with the beloved, even if this experience can cause him only
pain.
It is for this reason that most of us would rather love than be loved. Almost
everyone wants to be the lover. And the curt truth is that, in a deep secret way, the state
of being be loved is intolerable to many. The beloved fears and hates the lover, and with
the best of reasons. For the lover is forever trying to strip bare his beloved. The lover
craves any possible relation with the beloved, even if this experience can cause him only
pain.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
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Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Nick1 kinda hard to do when you are married to a narcissist.
Lilliesandlight · 41-45, F
@Notladylike ugh. All I have is the rage ☹️
@Lilliesandlight Half way there
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zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I would love to find that out too - I'm presuming you're talking about romantic/intimate/sexual/adult love not parental love as I get in spades from my 5 y/o (and she gets it back from me her very proud dad).
The former kind is pure unobtainium.
The former kind is pure unobtainium.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I know what unconditional love from a child (my 6 yo daughter) is like but sadly find adult romantic intimate love highly elusive and basically pure unobtainium now in my 50's.
SW-User
You feel safe and like you matter and are beautiful and not an invisible pos all of a sudden.
Mattypp · 56-60, M
I know i loved my mom bbut not same as a partner in life
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Believe in hope.
You will soon experience it 🤗
No one should go unloved..
You will soon experience it 🤗
No one should go unloved..
Mattypp · 56-60, M
I domt kmow other then if love real one
TheScubaDiver · 36-40, M
You might ... Stay positive about that
Foodie60 · 31-35, M
Same here
Foodie60 · 31-35, M
@Lilliesandlight I guess at times we have to leave to God
SW-User
It makes you feel fulfilled.
cycleman · 61-69, M
I have Zero clue!
