So my ex mother in law died recently.

She hated mostly everyone even her own children and grandchildren. She tortured me and made my life a living hell 24/7. She was jealous of everyone. All she liked was material things and eating all the food she craved while not wanting to feed anyone in her family. She liked to take and not give. All her material things are left behind and what did she take with her ? She only took the hate she gained from all those that she hurt in life. She abused her family and used them. She manipulated her sons to hate their wives and cause pain for everyone. What are we taking with us? Death makes us think twice about how we treat others.

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Jeephikelove · 51-55, F

Wow, hopefully your family can start to heal from the devastation she caused. I’m so sorry to hear. That’s a Narcissist for you. 🤗

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Jeephikelove · 51-55, F

@SW-User she sounds like it!! Horrible!

SW-User

She was a nightmare. I swear to you that I wished she died while I was married because she caused me soo much pain @Jeephikelove

Jeephikelove · 51-55, F

@SW-User 🤗🤗

Grateful4you · M

As bizarre as it sounds I think your job now is to forgive HER! She needs to be loved because she has all the pain now that has come down on her head. I sure wouldn't want to be in her place right now.

Only you can help her out of the hell she created. I'm an atheist but I know full well I am accountable for all the hurt I may have caused others. She is learning that now. Just let her know it's okay for her to forgive herself.

SW-User

I don’t know about that. I think she deserves the wrath of God. Only God saved me from her. She was ruthless and cruel. I lived and ate with her and she practically starved me. She yelled at me 24/7 and she tried her best to keep me away from my family. It was a struggle for me to visit my family when I was with her. She caused my ex to hate me and physically abuse me. She tried to take the clothes I had off my back. She caused me grief if I bought a candy bar. She didn’t want me to enjoy anything in life and she succeeded. She turned my ex into the monster he became. It’s time she faced God with her punishment. The hurt she caused me deserves no forgiveness. All I will do is not curse her since she’s dead. In my religion speaking badly about another person causes you to carry their sins away from them. I won’t do that. I want her to carry her sins for as long as she deserves. I will just forget what she did to me. That’s all, she belongs to God now. @Grateful4you

Fairydust · F

I feel you, if only they could see what it does to families, kindness goes a long way.

my ex MIL was awful to one of my kids, treated her appalling, she wonders why none of them want to see her. 🙄

I never understand how people can be so cruel. 😞

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Being cruel to your grandchildren is just despicable. Grannies like that don’t deserve to be treated with respect in my book. @Fairydust

Fairydust · F

@SW-User
I don’t understand it, funny she can’t see it now they don’t go, I did confront her about her behaviour, she denied it 😏

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

I agree with u, 2 days ago one evil uncle passed away...he did very WRONG and caused Troubles to me and my family....
Now he was not able to take a coin with himm...

SW-User

Exactly but they don’t think about death when they hurt others @AngelKrish

AngelKrish · 26-30, M

@SW-User That's unfortunate, my dad sold his 250 gm gold which will cost lakhs of rupees to help evil uncle in past, even food and groceries my dad given them in past, also paid bail in police station and get him out in one police matter...
Still he backstabbed my dad again and again even after my dad passed away still he troubled me and my family!
My dad was very good man.🥺

SW-User

Evil people never appreciate anything good people do for them. They are too ruthless. They have no heart or sympathy but they will get punished one day . @AngelKrish