So my ex mother in law died recently.

She hated mostly everyone even her own children and grandchildren. She tortured me and made my life a living hell 24/7. She was jealous of everyone. All she liked was material things and eating all the food she craved while not wanting to feed anyone in her family. She liked to take and not give. All her material things are left behind and what did she take with her ? She only took the hate she gained from all those that she hurt in life. She abused her family and used them. She manipulated her sons to hate their wives and cause pain for everyone. What are we taking with us? Death makes us think twice about how we treat others.

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Grateful4you · M

As bizarre as it sounds I think your job now is to forgive HER! She needs to be loved because she has all the pain now that has come down on her head. I sure wouldn't want to be in her place right now.

Only you can help her out of the hell she created. I'm an atheist but I know full well I am accountable for all the hurt I may have caused others. She is learning that now. Just let her know it's okay for her to forgive herself.

SW-User

I don’t know about that. I think she deserves the wrath of God. Only God saved me from her. She was ruthless and cruel. I lived and ate with her and she practically starved me. She yelled at me 24/7 and she tried her best to keep me away from my family. It was a struggle for me to visit my family when I was with her. She caused my ex to hate me and physically abuse me. She tried to take the clothes I had off my back. She caused me grief if I bought a candy bar. She didn’t want me to enjoy anything in life and she succeeded. She turned my ex into the monster he became. It’s time she faced God with her punishment. The hurt she caused me deserves no forgiveness. All I will do is not curse her since she’s dead. In my religion speaking badly about another person causes you to carry their sins away from them. I won’t do that. I want her to carry her sins for as long as she deserves. I will just forget what she did to me. That’s all, she belongs to God now. @Grateful4you