So my ex mother in law died recently.

She hated mostly everyone even her own children and grandchildren. She tortured me and made my life a living hell 24/7. She was jealous of everyone. All she liked was material things and eating all the food she craved while not wanting to feed anyone in her family. She liked to take and not give. All her material things are left behind and what did she take with her ? She only took the hate she gained from all those that she hurt in life. She abused her family and used them. She manipulated her sons to hate their wives and cause pain for everyone. What are we taking with us? Death makes us think twice about how we treat others.

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SW-User

I feel you, if only they could see what it does to families, kindness goes a long way.

my ex MIL was awful to one of my kids, treated her appalling, she wonders why none of them want to see her. 🙄

I never understand how people can be so cruel. 😞

SW-User

Being cruel to your grandchildren is just despicable. Grannies like that don’t deserve to be treated with respect in my book. @SW-User

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I don’t understand it, funny she can’t see it now they don’t go, I did confront her about her behaviour, she denied it 😏