Why would a woman push away a man who keeps on being there for her

@LucyFuhr She's always been kind to me whenever there was no other man around. I know, my ex had been the same. But still I wonder what actually made each one of her relationships end.

@SW-User high five on most of that.

@Mindful I seemed to surprise her by remembering something she told me about herself quite a while beforehand, which was when she seemed to feel neglected enough already to go for another man. I guess she'd enjoy being complimented whenever chances given.

This might take a weird turn now, but she suffers from hypothyroid disease just like my mother who behaves towards my father like my crush does towards me. Which is why I take this as normal for her and might be able to deal with it.

@scooogy if an extremely beautiful person did not have a family with profound understanding about inner and outer beauty she may not realize that no matter how beautiful you are on the outside, people stop looking at the outside and will begin treating you just like a normal human being. People treat you normal once they feel safe with you. So when she announces someone as a boyfriend, that person doing everything possible (flowers, drinks, special hair and shaving whatever…and a gazzillion you are sooooo beautiful, sweet, gorgeous, sweet whispers treats and candies, swooning with uteer 100% attention going to the eyes) when that person finally hears “boyfriend” once they believe they have “achieved the acceptance… they may treat her less like a superstar… and now just a normal person. if she doesn’t feeling normal— sounds like she just finds the next someone else who she thinks adores her.

There are men who chase women… until they conquer the woman so it’s very possible some of those men… are blinded and it takes them a while before they realize she doesn’t have much depth.

@Ingwe makes her suspicious though about on the one hand wanting to have kids some day and on the other hand quitting a relationship earlier than pregnancy would..

@ChipmunkErnie a user for what though?

@scooogy Uses you when she doesn't have someone she feels is "better". :(

@ChipmunkErnie sounds like my ex, although my ex is married today and that other woman is like nowhere in life.

@Nanori I want to second this a thousand times as I think it's good advice to the poster.

@Nanori now why would she prefer her cats over a human partner being around for just as long?

@eyeno but considering this picture, why would she always claim having been the one quitting the relationship? Something within me says her exes provoked it.

@empanadas this