Why would a woman push away a man who keeps on being there for her

@SW-User but then why always on the one hand wait a few months before announcing someone as her partner, yet a few weeks after that it's over again. That's like buying a car of which after years you brag about how long it worked for, knowing that a few days later it would break. One should be honest enough to admit when things are going downhill...

@scooogy because maybe when the relationship is established, that's when it goes downhill...at least for her because that shouldn't normally happen.

@SW-User so what do you think establishes that relationship of hers which makes it go downhill again? Boredom?

@scooogy could be. If every relationship has failed and she has a lot of them, then it's probably something to do with her...or she just has terrible partners

@SW-User She told me about the first partner that she would do sports with him. She said nothing else about him though. But could her partners also be "terrible" if they can't deal with her hormone-induced moodiness?

@scooogy I guess so lol

I'm just going to say that if you're interested in her, I'm sure she would've reciprocated if she felt the same way.

@SW-User she's flirted with me here and there, but I didn't make a first move on her back then because I was still busy with my life.

@scooogy well...pursue her at your own peril lol. Just get the impression she's probably using you and not a great person to date

@SW-User Is it lame that in the beginning I fell for her beauty?

@scooogy that's normal

@SW-User and what do women fall for in the beginning usually?

@scooogy For me, they have to be older, very intelligent and have depth to their character. I like complexity but it's important for them to have it together financially and emotionally. Unstable men are a turn off, and so are men who just want sex. I like men who are dominant but in clever and interesting ways. Some supposedly "dominant" guys are just so lame. One thing that gets me excited is seeing a guy destroy other people in arguments lol. It may not sound very feminist, but I like a man who is intellectually superior to me...that probably doesn't take much though 😂

I don't know about other women. A lot of them don't know what they want.

@SW-User Wow... now I feel lame when I'm happy with brown eyes, a beautiful smile and a patient character already 🤷‍♂️

@scooogy this may sound very silly, but not everyone can handle or carry their beauty….(it sounds as if she can’t) and Not every knows how to love beyond the honeymoon phase. … it’s kind of the way not everyone can handle getting older (hence the mid life crisis) if she is beautiful and can’t survive past the honeymoon phase she is going to be like this forever. Sounds like she’s not able to understand human behavior….you can’t understand others unless you understand yourself.

@scooogy I'll take blue eyes over brown lol

@SW-User high five on most of that.

@Mindful I seemed to surprise her by remembering something she told me about herself quite a while beforehand, which was when she seemed to feel neglected enough already to go for another man. I guess she'd enjoy being complimented whenever chances given.

This might take a weird turn now, but she suffers from hypothyroid disease just like my mother who behaves towards my father like my crush does towards me. Which is why I take this as normal for her and might be able to deal with it.

@scooogy if an extremely beautiful person did not have a family with profound understanding about inner and outer beauty she may not realize that no matter how beautiful you are on the outside, people stop looking at the outside and will begin treating you just like a normal human being. People treat you normal once they feel safe with you. So when she announces someone as a boyfriend, that person doing everything possible (flowers, drinks, special hair and shaving whatever…and a gazzillion you are sooooo beautiful, sweet, gorgeous, sweet whispers treats and candies, swooning with uteer 100% attention going to the eyes) when that person finally hears “boyfriend” once they believe they have “achieved the acceptance… they may treat her less like a superstar… and now just a normal person. if she doesn’t feeling normal— sounds like she just finds the next someone else who she thinks adores her.

There are men who chase women… until they conquer the woman so it’s very possible some of those men… are blinded and it takes them a while before they realize she doesn’t have much depth.