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Who do you contact if people have destroyed your life?

Budwick · 70-79, M
After reading some of your responses to others, I was able to learn more about your situation.

No one can change the past.
What has happened, has happened.

It seems that you have expected others to swoop in and fix things for you.
First step - toss that expectation.
Even if you had bunches of interested and loving people around you,
YOU are responsible for your own happiness.
Sorry if that sounds cold - not meant to be - just true.

So, step back and take stock of yourself.
What is important to you?
What do you like to do?
What would you like to accomplish?
Stuff like that.
Take responsibility for yourself and your comfort and happiness
And start getting what is important, do what you like to do, and set goals for your future.

It's not something you can do in a weekend.
But seriously, you can make big strides in a season.

Good luck
Budwick · 70-79, M
@DIABLISS [quote]same answer as before...and it does matter whose fault it is and who started it is always important. [/quote]

OK - you want to dwell on what or who put you where you are?
How long do you want to do that?
If you're really in your 60's. you've been doing that for over 50 years now.
And you expect that if you continue, that somehow the results will change?

You claim to be a lovely person.
I got new for you Lily, listening to you whine and complain does not appear lovely to me.
It appear pathetic.
Be thankful that you are alive.
Grab the reins of your life and take control.
@Budwick you have no humanity. i haven't whined or anything else that you have said that i did. you just don't want to acknowledge that there are people like me, that through no fault of their own got destroyed by other people because of jealousy and their own need to destroy and kill and maim others. what this means is that you are exactly like them and shouldn't even be on this thread. you came her to drive someone away or to feel badly for themselves. i feel sorry for the people in your life that can't count on you for anything but humiliation and badgering
@Budwick i re-read everything that you wrote here and there is no possible way for me to believe that you are even a human being. you don't listen …you don't respond like a human and you don't ever need to communicate with a brilliant kind hard working beautiful human being like my self. i almost feel sorry for you.
No one. I just chalk it up as a lesson learned and move on.
@DIABLISS [quote] Who do you contact if people have destroyed your life?[/quote]
This was you question. You didn’t share details. As I said in my comment when you explained your story, I’m sorry you have lived this nightmare. Unfortunately, I do t have an answer, but I wish I did.
@Pinkstarburst i said my life was destroyed...you sound like that commercial for depression. the one where people say all the wrong things to make themselves feel better
@DIABLISS I’m sorry you feel that way
Pfuzylogic · M
I go with God also if I am going to be real. At the very least, I pray for personal peace.
@Pfuzylogic does it really matter? the numbers are so vague anyway...millions of years ago...approximately ten million years ago. i wasn't around then and it really doesn't matter...most science and history books should be re-written anyway. why did they lie to us so much when we were kids? it didn't serve any purpose at all. and 100 years from now those people will make fun of us for being so stupid
Pfuzylogic · M
@DIABLISS
The important thing is to distinguish truth from fiction. The only dating based on materials is carbon dating , specifically Carbon 14 up to 50,000 years. Anything older is based on the position of the object in the earth.
In other words, all dating so far in the millions of year is likely fiction.
@Pfuzylogic not really...just askew
@InHeaven what do you tell yourself?
Iwillwait · M
@DIABLISS [i]"Told You So."[/i]
Doomflower · 36-40, M
I've been thinking. When life gives you lemons, [b]don't[/b] make lemonade. Make life take the lemons back! Get mad! Demand to see life's manager!
-Cave Johnson
i was kidnapped at 4., raped and beaten and lied about since. went to the police and they brought me back there. called the FBI and they made fun of me and threatened me. raped and beaten at school, at work, in my neighborhood. never had anything ever. no one will help me. i am the strongest person ever but this is too much. i can't even go to the doctors.
@DIABLISS I’m very sorry for your experience and wish I had an answer to help.
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
@DIABLISS didnt your parents stand up for you and protect you? Move you far away?
@Jenny1234 my real father died in Viet nam. my mother died in front of me when i was kidnapped. i went to 23 and me...all i found were distant cousins. as far as i know my close family members died on the same day my mother died. as for my new family...they lied about me constantly. i never did a thing wrong in my entire life
This is the forth time i have asked this question and all i have gotten was blamed for my situation, religious tokens that mean absolutely nothing in this situation, and people asking me what exactly happened. The last response is the only correct response... that and maybe a suggestions as to what i should do. So if the first two types would kindly stop, that would be appreciated.
In what way?
@SStarfish no, but his actions still linger. i can't work. i have been lied about everywhere. if i leave the area, i am almost murdered. i can't go to a doctor. and i can't have friends
Move to a different town where nobody knows you.. they cant lie about you everywhere.. if any of the people involved with abusing you are still alive then make a formal complaint and name names and events and times of their offenses as clearly as possible and give it to someone who can do something about it who is out of the area.. if you have proof that these people were not related to you and kidnaped you and murdered your mother and all that then they should be prosecuted for it.. otherwise if you go around saying stuff like “my fake family abused me” then you just sound like a crazed paranoid person and nobody knows if they can take you seriously.. @DIABLISS
@SStarfish OMG! This is exactly what i am complaining about. you are talking about a fictitious place that i can magically go to and complain. I moved to several different cities and it followed me there. i changed my name and it followed me there. i went to Ny and Tennessee and Vegas and it followed me there. your past doesn't go away. they want your school and your friends and your family and your previous work experience. i even tried moving without getting a job and they found me through my husband's info.
The FBI and police were involved. i went to them anyway and was subsequently threatened and made fun of. There is no place for me in this world. i did everything right and correct and have nothing and nobody.
Please tell me where this place is that i can take my info to...? you know, like my original question...? and i am the least crazed and paranoid person in the world.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
God/Myself I go within
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
A lawyer? Police?
@Jenny1234 the police and the FBI are involved. no i am not kidding
summersong · F
I deal with it myself and get help from professionals as needed to undo the damage.
@SStarfish there was an entire city like this. it is not that insane. and that ridiculous nonsense about getting someone in to verify my info....that was a new thing in the 80's. and i read psychology today since i could read. it said that this was a cue to get up and leave and never talk to this therapist or psychologist again and i agree. one of them started yelling at me and saying i was stupid because i didn't know if i was an alcoholic or not. well it turns out i am not but at the time i was drinking alot in spurts. but i eventually got bored and quit. and i don't miss it. actually i miss the snacks that go with alcohol
@SStarfish there are conspiracies every where. people are so used to it that they ignore it and call it something else. the rash of black people being shot by police is a conspiracy. the fact that Russia has always had intel on us through the white house is a conspiracy. gas prices going up for stupid reasons is a conspiracy. the way politicians go after each other personally is a conspiracy. the way we go to war when the economy is screwed is a conspiracy. drug sales that shouldn't even exist in your neighborhood is a conspiracy. the way women have been trained to think that we aren't raped when we were is a conspiracy. and we are all in on it to some degree.
Jeephikelove · 46-50, F
Right!? That’s what dogs are for. ❤️🦮
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TheCoolestCat · 31-35, M
ghost busters
SW-User
Montanaman · M
vaya con dios 🙏😇🤗
SW-User
Those who destroy others, get destroyed sooner or later.
@sspec i used to believe that....when i was 5. this is made up nonsense from Hallmark. people never get what they deserve
@DIABLISS Depends on what so called chunk of people want.
@sspec what?
FurryFace · 61-69, M
God usually when things are really stacked against me
@FurryFace not religious anymore
FurryFace · 61-69, M
@DIABLISS i never was , mostly Spiritual
@FurryFace it didn't help me. i am actually looking for a place to contact about this situation
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
I guess you come here and vent.
@ChipmunkErnie all it is doing is pissing me off. people give the stupidest answers. next some one will tell me to pray
ChipmunkErnie · 70-79, M
@DIABLISS Well, THAT won't be me. But it is hard to know what to say to someone hurting. I mean, just what can you say that will actually help?
@ChipmunkErnie nothing...the closest thing to an answer i have gotten was to contact groups...but they never exist
Myself, and some few select friends I trust?
@thewindupbirdchronicles i don't have any friends. i have been lied about since i was 4
Happyheart1 · 31-35, M
Have you received my message
@Happyheart1 yes thanks
eyeno · M
[b]LETS GET'EM!!![/b]

@eyeno they all deserve to die not like that panda bear. but i am no murderer. i don't get even or lie about others
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
@Thevy29 i thought about it but i don't have the money and i hat the idea of murder...ewww
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Tres13 · 51-55, M
Like, to destroy them or move on?
@V00doo who do i contact if my life was destroyed by other people?
Elanor · F
Myself … I make some changes and lol at their baffled faces when they see I’m doing good 😌
@Elanor i can't even go to the doctors

 
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