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Ever feel lonely in a crowd of people?

I mean people you know and even like....?

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TiffAching · 26-30, F

Oh yeah. All the time.

Ksmile14 · F

@TiffAching It sucks... *hug*

SW-User

All the time, that's part of the reason I'm a loner..

Or Maybe it's [i]Because[/i] I'm a loner.. 🤔

Ksmile14 · F

@SW-User It's hard to know why, isn't it?

SW-User

@Ksmile14
Yes though I feel like it's mostly my fault but it still hurts.

Ksmile14 · F

@SW-User Yeah...it's a sucky feeling.

Soossie

Only if it's not the right crowd...

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Soossie

@Ksmile14

Absolutely...

Ksmile14 · F

@Soossie Thank you 🤗

Soossie

@Ksmile14

Welcome... 🤗

Pfuzylogic · M

Family can shun in a very painful manner.

Ksmile14 · F

Yes they can. @Pfuzylogic

Pfuzylogic · M

@Ksmile14
My mom could handle the blade of cruelty in an intimidating manner and feel justified as she measured it out.

DCarey · 46-50, M

Yes I'm always nervous around people.

Ksmile14 · F

@DCarey Do you know why?

DCarey · 46-50, M

@Ksmile14 I've always been that way. Lots of anxiety and depression.

poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F

most often yeah

Ksmile14 · F

@poisonouscupcake I'm sorry. Me too.

poisonouscupcake · 22-25, F

@Ksmile14 i’m here for you sweet girl😔💖💖

Ksmile14 · F

@poisonouscupcake Thank you 🤗

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

Feel lonely? No, not really. I stay occupied with me, myself, and I. We have fun. 🙂

KiwiBird · 36-40, F

@sarabee1995 "All the world is mad except me and thee although I do have doubts about thee...."

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@KiwiBird Hahaha, yup! 😉

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

Certainly have, am not into the party scene.

Ksmile14 · F

@cherokeepatti Doesn't even have to be a party---like a family gathering or a basketball game.

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@Ksmile14 yeah those too. I don’t like a lot of noises, I am tone-deaf and can’t hear clearly with a lot of background noise when someone is speaking to me. I don’t like to attend sports games & activities either.

Ksmile14 · F

@cherokeepatti I understand *hugs*

Yulianna · 22-25, F

i feel lonely only in a crowd of people...

Ksmile14 · F

@Yulianna So when you're alone you're not lonely?

Yulianna · 22-25, F

@Ksmile14 🤗 absolutely... i grew up with my own company, i am comfortable with it.

SW-User

All the time.

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SW-User

@Ksmile14 I'm not good company atm. I'm sorry.

Ksmile14 · F

@SW-User It's ok. We all feel like that sometimes.

SW-User

@Ksmile14 true. 👍

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

Unfortunately yes

Ksmile14 · F

@vetguy1991 I hate that feeling

vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

@Ksmile14 me too :(

Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M

Hmmm. Not really

Ksmile14 · F

@Ambroseguy80 Good for you. I'm glad there is someone who feels like part of the crowd.

BeefySenpie · M

I avoid crowds of people

spjennifer · 56-60, T

Yes, all the time, i don't people very well, even with family, love them but they know so little about me.

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spjennifer · 56-60, T

@Ksmile14 I know and there are aspects of me that i wouldn't want to share with them anyway, vicious circle as you say.

Ksmile14 · F

@spjennifer Stay strong

spjennifer · 56-60, T

@Ksmile14 Thank you and Merry Christmas to you!

Snowvixen

Ksmile14 · F

@Snowvixen He must have felt that way :(

Snowvixen

@Ksmile14 😟 Yeah. Its really sad. :(

GunFinger · F

Not really. All my mom and her sisters talk about are other people. I just leave and do more productive things like watch tv. With others sometimes I'm alright.

Ksmile14 · F

@GunFinger You're such a productive person

Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T

Ya thats pretty much how i am. I just dont go out anymore.

Ksmile14 · F

@Chelsiegirl Shouldn't be that way. *hugs*

Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T

@Ksmile14 thanks. Im not a people person.

Ksmile14 · F

@Chelsiegirl

ABCDEF7 · M

Most of the time. Got used to it.
Now I accepted the people visible to me as part of the moment I am having in my life, it's better now.

ASLAN · 26-30, M

Every single day.. Like I somehow I don't belong.. But, I've got used to it 🤷‍♂️

Ksmile14 · F

@ASLAN I think that's what happens. You get used to it.

ASLAN · 26-30, M

@Ksmile14 yeah.. sometimes I feel it, like you get a look at everybody around you then you feel like you don't fit.. You're an outsider 🤷‍♂️.

Rhonda · F

Yes and when no one is looking i quietly leave

Ksmile14 · F

@Rhonda I hate when I can't leave. :(

Rhonda · F

@Ksmile14 you feel so trapped when that happens. If people are drinking and dancing its so much easier to get away.

Ksmile14 · F

@Rhonda Exactly

Beatbox34 · 31-35, M

All the time.

It sucks when people see me differently so I choose not to socialize.

SooperSarah

This is literally my life

Ksmile14 · F

@SooperSarah You're so sweet...everyone would wanna be around you. :*

SooperSarah

@Ksmile14 I don't want that either lol

Ksmile14 · F

@SooperSarah lol Doesn't mean you have to let them...just that they would want to be. :P 🤗

OzDiver · 61-69, M

Yes, definitely.

Ksmile14 · F

@OzDiver Yup. 🤗

OzDiver · 61-69, M

@Ksmile14 It can be very unsettling too 🤗

Ksmile14 · F

@OzDiver idk...just makes me sad.

Sirmunchabunch · 31-35, M

I feel like that with my family

Ksmile14 · F

@Sirmunchabunch Do they not understand you?

SW-User

Yes all my life. I just don't gaf anymore

Temporallube · M

Always. I was always a misfit and awkward

MrGomco · 36-40, M

Welcome to the XXI Century 👍

KiwiBird · 36-40, F

"Together Alone"

sarabee1995 · 26-30, F

@KiwiBird exactly

kodiac · 22-25, M

Yes but i don't really mind .

ProfessorPlum77 · 70-79, MVIP

Absolutely!

SW-User

I avoid crowds.

luvnsunshine · 22-25, F

Mhm, I know the feeling. I've felt simply empty the last few days... Like there is nothing left in me, just a lonely husk.

I'm sorry you're feeling lonely sweetie, someone as incredible as you should never have to feel that way 🤗🤗❤️❤️

SW-User

Yes.

Ksmile14 · F

@SW-User I don't believe it.

Thespis · M

I feel most lonely in a crowd. I'm full of awkwardness and have a hard time engaging especially in large numbers. I just end up drifting and staying off to the sides.

Vivaci

Yes, when their mental level doesn't match mine, I don't get their jokes or humor. Then I walk away...no point in trying to fit in where you don't belong.