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impressionist · 70-79, M
hey im retired and still dont no what i want to do for a living
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sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
I've known since I was very young that I wanted to do something that would allow me to travel and see the world.

And I was interested in politics.

So I studied International Relations at University.

While at University, I realized that to be anybody in my field I would need at least a master's degree, but I didn't want to pay for it.

So I spoke to a Navy recruiter and we discussed career options within my field with the Navy. I found a match and joined the Navy after completing my bachelor's degree.

They are now putting me through grad school for my masters.

"Plan the work. Work the plan"
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@KiwiBird Women? Awesome! I always knew Oz was a great place full of intelligent people! ;)

@ozgirl512 Thank you!
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@SW-User I think she meant the ladder doesn't get higher. You can get higher up the ladder with hard work. But you do have to set your sights!
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@samueltyler2 Lol, yes, Alex and I were talking about that great ladder of life. But, Kiwi and I have been friends for a very long time and often tease each other. She knows I'm only 5' 1.5" and likes to poke me sometimes about it. It's all in good fun.

And yes, setting sights and having goals is very important.

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I always wanted to sing. It turned out that and basic piano chords became a hobby. Fairs and stuff. It was a blast. If I were well I'd get some good training and backup for someone, big or small, as long as it paid. I prefer harmony anyway. Lead takes more balls, and I've never found my footing there. But I love winding my way in and out of different notes that compliment the lead.

Heck, I'd clean hotels again if I could, and be happy about it. Wah. What a victim.

What would YOU do? Something in the litigation field, if I remember?
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@SW-User hey you knew this for many years now :)
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@SW-User 🤗 I won’t deny that
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@SW-User you won me over, how could I resist your charm? 😏🤗🤗
thedevilsdagger · 41-45, F
I've wanted to be a rockstar since I was 3 years old. Fat lot of good it did me, though, because my parents tried to destroy my dream at every turn. Until I was 16, my Dad bought me a keyboard. I wish I'd realised that it was his way of supporting my dream, but because he and Mom kept saying, "Be realistic, find a -real- job", and kept referring to my dream as a "hobby", I slumped down and just... gave up. Some people thrive through adversity. I needed support. Everybody's different. And they were only trying to protect me from disappointment. I love them, but I wish they'd supported my dream.
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@thedevilsdagger I wish they had supported you more prominently. It feels like crap not having support from those dearest to you when you want to follow your dream.
bowman81 · M
I was about 23 or 24. I was working in a machine shop and decided I did not want to spend the rest of my life covered in cutting oil. I sat down and thought about things I was qualified to do, things that I thought were important, and things that I thought I was good at. I narrowed it down to an occupation that I was interested in....prepared myself. Then I went about applying for the position. Was hired at 26 and it worked out well for me.
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@bowman81 That’s what I’m doing right now too, just narrowing down to what’s right and best for me. I’m glad it turned out well for you!
bowman81 · M
@SW-User It was a career and it wasn't easy....but it was worth it. Good Luck to you.
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@bowman81 Thank you
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26. Long story hahaha
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@deadgerbil I enjoy it
deadgerbil · 22-25
@SW-User what subject do you teach?
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@deadgerbil General but I got an English teaching degree for ESL.

I used it when I traveled
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It changed a few times from circumstances, but 15.
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@SW-User enlighten me because I am not even sure what I'm thinking 😏 well, maybe a little ;)
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@SW-User Nuh uh 😌
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@SW-User secrets! 😲
Montanaman · M
Joined the Navy at 19, engineering. 40 years later, still doing the job, just in civilian land.
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@SW-User in a few 👍😁😎
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@sarabee1995 you are welcome and thank you 👍🤗
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@Montanaman 👍️
StrayTom · 41-45, M
There are many things I've wanted to do for a living and many things I've done for a living. I'm working on doing what I want for a living, although an aspiring musician is a risky move. Playing and creating music is quite different than what I went to college for at an early age, IT/IS technical support...

I'm currently 36 years old and reconsidering my occupation as an IT support technician. Due to health reasons, I need to work from home. I've been unable to land another work from home gig doing tech support (which I started while still in high school with my own business). I'm also of a creative nature, runs in the family all over the place. Each of my family members is an artist of at least one variety. I've always wanted to focus on music; only now at this age am I taking it seriously again. The last time I played music with aspirations was also back in high school.

In summary, I pretty much knew from about age 16 or so what I wanted to do. Both in reality and in an ideal world. I never considered being a musician to be practical, until now.
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StrayTom · 41-45, M
@SW-User I'm down to try creating some new songs using old school/basic instruments and vocals. Good old multi-track recording FTW.
StrayTom · 41-45, M
@PhoenixPhail You sure can. I've been learning some of my favorite songs on guitar lately. Really enjoying the process, and getting better!
TexChik · F
19 . I turned down medschool at the last moment and went another way ... second best decision of my life
TexChik · F
@SW-User He was a Marine . I felt like I had been to boot camp ! And we were inseparable
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@TexChik I’m glad you had amazing parents behind you ❤️
TexChik · F
@SW-User Thank you
I’ve never wanted to do anything I just wanted to be a millionaire so I didn’t have to.
@SW-User I’ve given up trying to become one. However I do feel I have a good life as it is with quite a few luxuries. I do work though.
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@Gingerbreadspice Being a millionaire is exhausted anyway 😆
@SW-User Probably.
I was a kid. My mind was so fixated on the idea, I still can’t imagine myself doing anything else.
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@LithiumDrop What did you want to do as a kid?
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DunningKruger · 61-69, M
First grade. As soon as I learned how to write, I knew I wanted to write.

10th grade. I planned to attend the computer programming program at the vo-tech school our high school shipped students to for their junior and senior years. Then I saw a presentation by the school about all the programs they offered — and I saw their graphic arts program. They taught all about offset printing, typesetting, all that stuff. (This was in the late '70s, so long before digital design was a thing.) As soon as I saw it, I was there.

11th grade. I chose to apply to one university. One. My plan was to go to the first and best journalism school in the world. It never even occurred to me that I wouldn't be accepted. And I was accepted, and eventually got into the school of journalism, where I did a lot of writing, and I also did a lot of graphic design.

So, there's that.
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@DunningKruger Oh wow you should be proud of yourself 😊
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@SW-User I grew up in a tar-paper shack, so I think I've done OK for myself.
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@DunningKruger Lol oh come on give yourself more credits 😄
deadgerbil · 22-25
I figured out what I wanted to do last semester, so 20 years old lol.

I focused on a couple of majors, realizing they weren't for me, before deciding on criminal justice lol
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@deadgerbil Lol You’ll have plenty of time to work out when you’re done with school 😁 I wish you best in your career
deadgerbil · 22-25
@SW-User lol school can be so time-consuming, just sucks the life outta you.

Thx :D you too!
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I always knew I wanted to be a stripper
Montanaman · M
@SW-User Qualified!👍😜🤭
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@SW-User Lol Whatever floats your boat girl
Keaten · 31-35, M
I was very young when I realized I wanted to help people and build things. I was around five. I kind of tried other ways out to see if they fit me but I have always been a philanthropic craftsman!😁
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@Keaten What a resourceful guy 😏
Keaten · 31-35, M
@SW-User Thank you. I am very good with my hands.😉
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@Keaten 😆 I can tell
Keepitdown · F
I had ideas of what I wanted to be but I never had that “aha” moment, I have a great job now but many things just happened along the way to get me nto what I do now. Try to strive to do something you enjoy and pays decently and invest in education if you can, your working life lasts a long time
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@Keepitdown I’ll keep that in mind 😃
Fatneasy · 41-45, F
Still figuring it out
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@Fatneasy 🤗😘
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@Fatneasy Take your time
When I figure it out, I will let you know. Seriously though, I’ve done some interesting things along the way in life. It has prepared me to do what I love to do now. There are many doors yet to open in life for me.
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@Texasgurl That's amazing 😊
Keep learning, and it pays you.@SW-User
Scubaguy027 · 46-50, M
Around 10. Joined the Navy at 20 and became an Avionics Tech. Retired, went to school and now a Jet Engine Mechanic
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@Scubaguy027 Cooooool 😎
Scubaguy027 · 46-50, M
@SW-User this is the kind of stuff I work on. This is a V2500
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@Scubaguy027 Wicked!!! 😦
GoodoldBob · 61-69, M
LOL, which time? In my teens I was going to be a historian, in my early 20s I was going into Marketing (and got a Bachelor's degree in it), in my late 30s I became an accountant.
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@GoodoldBob Any time 🙂 For some people it’s a one moment thing. But I know there are people like you who change their careers over the course of time
JaggedLittlePill · 46-50, F
I have known for a long time but I did nothing about it. I was in jr high when I decided.

Now I am going back to school and obtaining my degree as a leg up and as a way to motivate me to keep reaching for that dream. Better late than never.

Don't be like me kids. Do what you know you want to do no matter your fears.
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@JaggedLittlePill Well said 😊 I wish you best of luck in pursuing your dream
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@JaggedLittlePill <Achieve it, then live it
22. Lol I realized I should put my passion for nature into a career. I’m only passionate about two things, so it was either music or nature. 🤷‍♀️
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@MorbidCynic That’s a practical thing to do actually. Most successful people would tell you that you should make a living out of something you love. That’s the best way to success
NativeOregonian · 51-55
From the time I was five I wanted to be a cop. When I was 23 the city of Portland advertised open applications so I put mine in. Out of 3,500 that submitted, mine was one of 500 chosen. I made it clear to the final phase of the process, the oral examination board interview, and blew it :/
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@SW-User I wish I could say I did, but it took some time, then they shipped that job to Mexico after 18 months :/ After that it was shitty job after shitty job, until I got too sick to work. I'm trying for disability now, my hearing is next month.
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@NativeOregonian Good luck! 😄 You can do this!
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@SW-User Thank you 🤗
At age 23 i have decided what i really wanna do with Life and works..
and still im doing that with dignity . 😌
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@valobasa4ever Sounds like you’ve found the right job for you 😊
@SW-User Yes I'm .. :3
I never did. I was too busy just surviving.
@SW-User In some things, like business. But I still don't consider myself to be successful at just being who I truly am.
(Does that sound weird?)
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@PhoenixPhail I think that’s a whole other story lol
@SW-User I think you're right.
Spumoni · 46-50, M
4. Graduated from high school, went right to work.
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@Spumoni Lol What did you want to do at age 4?
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@SW-User Railroad engineer on the train
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@Spumoni Nice 😁
Indy74 · 46-50, F
When I was 17. I went to college and got a 2 year degree in that field.
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@Indy74 Cool 😎
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
I still haven't, and I probably never will. The only thing I want to do - and this is on my CV - is help people.
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@CheshireCatalyst Well that could be a good idea 😄 I want a name that has a nice unique ring to it, so that people will remember it.
CheshireCatalyst · 36-40, M
@SW-User don't forget us when you're super famous! 🤗
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@CheshireCatalyst 😆 Oh you mean [b]if[/b] I become famous. And of course I wouldn’t forget you guys! 😊
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@KellyLancaster Were you happy with it?
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KiwiBird · 36-40, F
Sixteen. I got my University Entrance Score high enough a year early, didn't know what I wanted to study. Took a year off, left home did some travel and work experience in a Real Estate Office. I ended up doing a degree in Valuation and Property Management. While I am a qualified valuer I sell real estate.
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@KiwiBird Sounds like you’re doing pretty well 😄
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Work in progress.
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@YMITheWayIM Care to elaborate on that?
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
@SW-User I did so many things for living. Not because I wanted to, but because I needed to. Same story today, hence work in progress.
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At the age of 22 In 2002 i moved out of my parents place and moved down to London for 5 years to live a different life and life experiences I ended up gaining my secretary experience there in a top office job. ☺️

Stacey 💋
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@Mistress1 Aw that’s awesome 👏
Thank hun it was worth it in the end ☺️💋@SW-User
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@Mistress1 You’re welcome 😊
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
14.
I'd worked as a volunteer during the school holidays in a similar capacity but the law states that you have to be 21 before you can be considered to work in similar environments.

So off i went getting experience in other things before i applied at the age of 21 for a job i wanted.
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@Picklebobble2 That’s great that you had a clear idea of what you wanted to do at that age
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
I don't think I ever really did. 🤔
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@SwampFlower That’s perfectly normal
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@SW-User What did you want to do then?
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What I'm doing now @SW-User
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@SW-User Lol fair enough
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
mid teens, knew I wanted a career in military. First considered becoming a pilot/warrant officer school; by the time I was 17, was tired of schooling and became Infantryman instead
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@wildbill83 Are you still an infantryman?
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
once a grunt, always a grunt...
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My hobby was electronics since my dad was a ham radio operator. So I became an electrical engineer. But I didn't figure to be a career until I was 26. Hmmmm...
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@SW-User A hobby is all it takes for most cases 😁
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@SW-User why not do what you enjoy? We are free to pursue any career path.
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@SW-User Of course
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I dont think ive figured out what i want to do yet, more just learned the things i dont enjoy doing by having done them
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@SW-User honestly i dont think there is any one vocation that would keep me happy for an extended period.. i think change is good, learn what you learn and move on... Like If i got chilli doritos everytime i went to the store id lose the taste for them soon enough and be left with a sore tongue - good to change it up and try cool original aswell
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@SW-User Of course. If you can’t settle for one career, you can switch it up and end up having multiple careers lol
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@SW-User my best advice to anyone would be to achieve self employment, then you can have a low attention span like me and get by just fine lol
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
19?

I chose math. Or perhaps it chose me.
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@JoyfulSilence Lol so would everybody else
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
@SW-User Unless you cleaned hot tubs for a living.
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@JoyfulSilence Hahaha true
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26 and I just fell into it
It’s not what I wanted to do but it’s worked out fine
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@SW-User 🤗 Inspiring!
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@SW-User being tenacious and getting things done has been the key
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@SW-User discovery, success, awaits a prepared mind!
thepreposterouspanda · 36-40, M
Hahahaha. I'm 31 and I still have absolutely no idea, but life has thrown a few pretty big obstacles my way too haha. I'll figure it out though. :)
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StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Not until 26. I had a good job and was making great money but I had a passion for something else.
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@StevetheSleeve Was it hard for you to juggle between doing the job that allowed you to make great money and following your passion?
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@SW-User I struggled with it because I did like my job and the people I worked with. But I got a scholarship that allowed me to pursue what I wanted and that made it easier.
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@StevetheSleeve Ah so your passion outweighed your job. That’s nice 😊
Viper · M
I'll tell ya when I find out...

I mean I want to watch sports for a living since an early age, but no one has offered me a dime for that unless I'm betting on games.
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@Viper Lol It’d be nice to get paid for watching TV
firefall · 61-69, M
I just stumbled into it at age 22, quite by accident - referred by the Dole office as the company was looking for new staff.
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@firefall Lucky you then 😄
firefall · 61-69, M
@SW-User very
Reject · 26-30, M
I’ve never cared about what I do for a living. I always had other things on my mind.
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@Reject Like luuuv? 😆
Reject · 26-30, M
@SW-User You know me so well! 💕
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@Reject 😘🤗
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I still haven't figured it out. I've just picked something that was available and that i was good at and run with it.
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@SW-User That’s neat
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@SW-User No shame about that
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
I'm still not sure at 26 but I know that it must be a creative job.
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@CrazyMusicLover I hope you succeed at whatever you want to do 😃
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
@SW-User Thank you 😌
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@CrazyMusicLover You’re welcome
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At age 13, I knew I wanted to be a rock star. I’m still waiting for that to pan out........should be any day now.
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@SW-User Fantastic 😎

 
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