@Sunnykel76 bless you. How about some "me time" for yourself?

@VeronicaJane I try to squeeze that in too :)

@Sunnykel76 very important to do so.

@Stereoguy Well, I do work evenings and weekends even now, just not every single one! :-)

@StereoguyI will PM you. 😀

I know you’ve been through a lot lately, and I am so sorry for your recent losses. Everything will happen as it should, in it’s due time. @Newfound

@Harmonium1923 My heart goes out to you, hon.

@Harmonium1923 So sorry, my friend. 😞

@Thelonewolf1993 They're my mom and her sister. Fortunately, my wife helps.

@exexec That sounds tiring. My father in law, age 92, was with us for a month and that was too much. I feel for you. So many people are care givers. It is hard.

@exexec How well I relate with what you are saying. In 2016, then 2017 I lost Father and Mother in Law (respectively). After caring for my own wife for the last 25 years, it ended up in me caring for her Mother and Father also; I ran myself ragged, never complained and simply got on with it because someone had to do it. When they had both passed, after getting over the grief I thought it was time I took in a deep breath and begin to think more about myself; after all, I had so much 'free time' now, never on call day or night and only my wife to think about.

In effect, it was nothing, and still is nothing, like that. I have so much free time and, seemingly, not much to do with it. I feel lost, I feel somewhat disconnected from myself. I feel sensitive in ways I have never experienced, I feel anxious and tired with no reason I can give to explain why I do. Ah well ...

I really do feel for you and I know your life is hard. Take good care of yourself (in all that you will have to do) and give yourself breathing space and time to reflect; something I most certainly should have done and yet had no real idea how failing to do this put me in a place I could never have thought I might ever be.

@SW-User I know the feeling well

@Thelonewolf1993 It is a hard one to overcome. I am trying. What about you? Have you found any ways to make it easier?

@SailorMarz why

@Thelonewolf1993 i can't choose

@ProdigalSummer oh oh....

@ProdigalSummer Yeah. 😞

@questionWeaver yes, my greatest stressors are all connected to your gender 🤷‍♀️....son, poor-performing employee and love interest. Sorry.

@abooklover hmmmm ... looks like us guys have some catching up to do

😉 the ones in my world could step up a little.

@SW-User not the only one with money issues

@bijouxbroussard 🤗