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Do you think crossdressing is a lot of being an alcoholic?

Let me explain. Both do the following:

1) Destroys Families
2) Very Expensive
3) Addictive
4) Escape the Stresses of Life
5) Can become problematic.
6) Coping Mechanism
7) Both enslave you.

You don't think I'm not fighting a battle in my mind. Yeah, sometimes I find it hard not to reach for that bottle. Whiskey was my drink of choice, and I had to pick and choose the battle. If it weren't for my great wife and family, I know my life would truly be in hell.
Repete · 61-69, M
In some ways this may be true but I believe drinking is a much harder problem to control or overcome, if you want to overcome it.
Being honest from the start with your partner is a must because no one likes being the last to know when it comes out and we all have different feelings about different things. Better to deal with it in the beginning and except the answer you get.

I’m saying this only from an observation point of view because I have never had to deal with drinking or dressing problem (if it’s a problem) so this is just my opinion.
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There are definite parallels. Having grown up in a family where alcoholism was a real issue, I believe it is far more destructive than crossdressing.
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
Want to know something

My wife caught me before we we're even dating, we didn't Even know each other.

We meet at the shopping mall and I was already wearing wearing a skirt & stockings. She came up to me and starting talking.

So I never had to hide it from the start
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@HumanEarth that's awesome.
4meAndyou · F
Even though I used to drink, I had no problem quitting once I left the ex. Turns out he was the REASON I drank....🤣🤣🤣

I recommend digging down deep, and finding the first time in your life that you ever had a drink, and ask yourself..."What was I like before that day?" "Why did I NOT need to drink before that day?"
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
I was in highschool when I had my drink of booze

Its was to fit and to be a cool kid and all that shit.
Im a sissy crossdress and I don’t bother anyone that doesn’t want to be bother. I have nothing to do with married men or women. I do not drink. I mind my own business
ninalanyon · 61-69, T
1) Doesn't have to
2) No it isn't
3) It's a means of self-expression not an addiction
4) Contradicts 1)
5) So can most things
6) See 5)
7) See 3)
bookerdana · M
Same with almost any addiction..at least you remember what you did lat night..good on yer family!🙂
happilymarriedguy · 61-69, M
I have to agree with you, but in my case it has not destroyed my family.
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
Everyone case is different.
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