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Gaining confidence

I am starting to get more comfortable shopping for women’s clothes in public I got my first underwire bra today I should have done it sooner but oh well sometimes nerves get the best of me I almost abandoned the shopping cart when a cashier walked up beside me while I was in self checkout lol. Thank you all for sharing your stories it really helps some of us stop being scared to live the life we want
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
Well to give you a boost, I been crossdressing out public since about the late 1980s.

Basically I was drinking a alone, put on a dress and went out to the bar. That night just so happen be New Years Eve as well.

Been doing ever since then. I rather shop in person then on-line. Less hassle and almost no returns when shopping at a physical store.

Mainly because they have fitting rooms
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@HumanEarth thanks that’s so inspiring you’re changing my perspective about this, sales people and fitting rooms have been my biggest roadblock so far
HumanEarth · 56-60, M
I wear women clothing 24/7 and live my life as a man.

I don't do the feminine or the female impersonator thing.

I've always mixed genders. They say I'm androgynous. I say I'm me
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@HumanEarth perfectly said no need to define yourself as anything you don’t feel
natasha69 · 61-69
Well done honey, I wish I was as brave as you ♥️
natasha69 · 61-69
@Trappedinthewrongbody that’s the plan
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@natasha69 feel free to message me if you ever need a listening ear
natasha69 · 61-69
@Trappedinthewrongbody aaah thanks that’s really kind ♥️
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
You have every right to be there, purchasing whatever you like, i kinda kept that in my mind the first few years, then it just got really easy....
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
@Trappedinthewrongbody i know the feeling; i used to do all my shopping late at night when WalFart was still 24 hours, in those early years
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@SilkandLace2 i understand that it’s the easiest way to start, I know it was for me. We owe it to ourselves to go wherever we want ❤️
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
@Trappedinthewrongbody indeed, the next step was branching out to other stores....
Musicman · 61-69, M
Fear can be crippling. I don't care what anyone says, we do worry about what other people think.
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@Musicman I sneakily dressed a few times during my early teenage years, as far as I know they don’t know. Yes I had my first apart close to a year before I bought my first bra. I really want to tell my mom so we can go shopping together and get our makeup done but I’m scared of her not accepting me
Musicman · 61-69, M
@Trappedinthewrongbody I definitely understand that. That is a huge concern and fear. Before we retired and moved the boy nextdoor came out. I say boy, but he was in his late 20's. His wife divorced him and he had to move home. His parents were not supportive at all, but they did help him out.
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@Musicman oh I hate that for him I know he was going through so many emotions
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@SilkandLace2 yep but that’s still kind of scary. It’s too bad I don’t have any irl friends to go with
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@SilkandLace2 as well as you shouldn’t we can’t let others opinions dictate what we do. Personally I cared for to long now I don’t it’s time to be free 😊
SilkandLace2 · 46-50, M
@Trappedinthewrongbody yeah, something like that!!
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michaela2001 · 70-79, M
I love the bra, I have one the same. You know that you now need breast forms to properly fill it.
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@michaela2001 it’s so comfortable i love it ❤️yes I’m ordering some offline since none of the stores around me carry them
twistedrope · 26-30, M
Good for you, very good. Shopping for clothes is insanely hard, especially when you don't fit into that Medium size box. We all got our own needs and your need for female clothes is as justifiable as those stupid work out singlets some men buy to show off their armpits and muscles around them.
SissySecrets · 41-45, T
That’s a great bra.
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@SissySecrets If you have any recommendations for a certain brand please feel free to share
SW-User
Good going, congrats to you.
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@SW-User thank you 🙂
SW-User
@Trappedinthewrongbody always a pleasure
nativespirit · 61-69, M
Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@nativespirit thank you 😊
nativespirit · 61-69, M
@Trappedinthewrongbody you're very welcome
StepDad2 · 36-40, M
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Trappedinthewrongbody · 26-30, T
@Strict4u you’re absolutely right thank you for the encouraging words 🙂

 
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