I have a question for you…
Because I understand you, but there’s a double standard. As a woman I love my dresses and skirts, but I never wear makeup, never do my hair. Most of my clothes are mens/unisex clothes because I don’t feel my clothing defines me. I like what I like and I feel perfectly comfortable leaving the house in whatever I wear.
As a man, you’re thought of differently for wearing women’s clothes, yet most people don’t care if a woman wears mens clothes…
I feel bad, in a way, that you have to hide or worry about what others will think, like you need an explanation for yourself.
I don’t know why I wear men’s clothes other than because I feel comfortable in them. I feel kinda sexy in them. It’s like a bow to my femininity to wear what I want and still feel my curves underneath. I don’t need tight fits or low cuts or makeup to express myself. But some women and men do express themselves that way. It’s no different. And it’s all on the outside, so while it’s a form of self expression, it’s not your definition.
I think there’s just more to people than stereotypes and what society dictates is masculine and feminine. I think we all have both energies and should embrace ourselves as we wish without question or criticism.
