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Ever broken someones trust?

Have you ever broke someones trust , someone who loves you deeply , was transparent and honest about everything and you just lied ?

What did it take to rebuild that trust?
How did you navigate the whole situation?
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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
I feel that my trust was broken, For me it was more of a breaking point. You can only take so much. If i start feeling that my feelings are being dismissed so much so to the point that it's affecting me physically and that person is dismissive, then obviously we could never move forward together and it's time for me to go. If it happens once, i am willing to forgive, i will bring it up and tell you how i feel, but if its several times happening over and over, and you are just dismissing everything that i'm screaming to you, then your actions shows me that i meant nothing to you in the 1st place. Trust can never be rebuilt when my everything tells me that you will never change So I had to be the bigger person and end what was dying that they were obviously oblivious to.They just could not see me drowning right in front of them at that point. No matter how much i screamed and waved.
Lee2025 · 31-35, FNew
@AngelUnforgiven oh Angel this sounds like alot... im sorry you went through this.
How are you now ?


How would you have wished they handled the situation?
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Lee2025 thank you, i'm better now. Tears are all dried up! I wish that they had taken me seriously. When all i ever tried to do was be there. They took my kindness for weakness so i had to put on armor to show that i had enough strength, to say no more. i am wearing it now and because of them i probably will be for the rest of my life. If you are reading this and you do not take away anything else that i'm saying. Listen! When someone is screaming to you , take a breath, bring it down a little, and just listen to them! While i was making them the center of my world, with everything revolving around them, they sat on the axis and made it all about themselves as well! Thats my job! To worship YOU! Once you start worshipping yourself, i am no longer needed.
Lee2025 · 31-35, FNew
@AngelUnforgiven thank you for this. Im glad your tears have dried , these still some work to do though to get a point where you drop that amour. Not everyone you meet will hurt you but i understand why you might still be scared.



I struggle with this , she asked for time to process her pain and all ive done it push for us to reconcile. Not because i dont care i was just afraid to lose her. Ive realized that those very actions might be the reason we never get through this. Im trying to give her the space and time to process her emotion and work through her healing. I hope she feels heard and seen now.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@Lee2025 you are doing the right thing, just give her some time 🫂 i hope that things work out.
Lee2025 · 31-35, FNew
@AngelUnforgiven 🤍🤍🤍🤍 take care yourself. Keep well