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Ever broken someones trust?

Have you ever broke someones trust , someone who loves you deeply , was transparent and honest about everything and you just lied ?

What did it take to rebuild that trust?
How did you navigate the whole situation?

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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

I feel that my trust was broken, For me it was more of a breaking point. You can only take so much. If i start feeling that my feelings are being dismissed so much so to the point that it's affecting me physically and that person is dismissive, then obviously we could never move forward together and it's time for me to go. If it happens once, i am willing to forgive, i will bring it up and tell you how i feel, but if its several times happening over and over, and you are just dismissing everything that i'm screaming to you, then your actions shows me that i meant nothing to you in the 1st place. Trust can never be rebuilt when my everything tells me that you will never change So I had to be the bigger person and end what was dying that they were obviously oblivious to.They just could not see me drowning right in front of them at that point. No matter how much i screamed and waved.

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Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@AngelUnforgiven thank you for this. Im glad your tears have dried , these still some work to do though to get a point where you drop that amour. Not everyone you meet will hurt you but i understand why you might still be scared.

I struggle with this , she asked for time to process her pain and all ive done it push for us to reconcile. Not because i dont care i was just afraid to lose her. Ive realized that those very actions might be the reason we never get through this. Im trying to give her the space and time to process her emotion and work through her healing. I hope she feels heard and seen now.

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

@Lee2025 you are doing the right thing, just give her some time 🫂 i hope that things work out.

Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@AngelUnforgiven 🤍🤍🤍🤍 take care yourself. Keep well

Lostpoet · M

If I did something and someone confronted me I'd fix it. I don't think I've lied about anything.

Me personally, I trust nobody a lesson I learned early in life.

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Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@Lostpoet that must suck.
I know trusting after betrayal is hard. But not every person you encounter has bad intentions.
When you ready consider taking necessary steps to deal with whatever trauma that caused your mistrust. Dont let your life slip away and deny yourself of experiencing beautiful meaningful relationships because of past traumas... you deserve happiness

Lostpoet · M

@Lee2025 Thank you. I think everyone deserves happiness.

I've just never been one to let things go, but I guess I better start trying if I want anything out of life.

Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@Lostpoet all you can ever do right is just try. Yes please try... you might enjoy life more when youve healed

SW-User

By a very good friend and yes it was very hard but we grow we move on and create new memories

Tumbleweed · F

I did. It was completely unintentional and I meant no harm. But she blocked me. And some things just can't be fixed. 🥺

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Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@Tumbleweed okay... take care of yourself and dont be too hard on yourself.

Thank you for engaging and sharing your experience with me. Have a blessed sunday

Tumbleweed · F

@Lee2025 Any time :)
And you as well, everything always works out the way it's supposed to. I'm a firm believer in that.

Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@Tumbleweed thanj you 😊

Locke ·

No. For all my other faults, I’m loyal and appreciate people.

Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@Locke thats lovely... keep at it.
No one deseves the pain that comes with betrayal of trust

YoMomma ·

Yeah but i resolved to never do it again and i haven't ever as far as my friends go anyway 🙂

Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@YoMomma that's great. You should proud of yourself for choicing to become a better person.

YoMomma ·

@Lee2025 ☺ ty 🙂

BigImo · 26-30, F

I've cheated on every partner I've ever had and slept with almost every partner my friends and siblings have had. Does that count?

Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@BigImo yes it does. Do you have any idea why you do that? It doesnt seem like normal behavior

BigImo · 26-30, F

@Lee2025 fun

SW-User

Pretty much started fresh 😒😒😒

Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@SW-User that must have been hard , so sorry. Have you healed or you still healing?

How were you betrayed?

pdockal · 56-60, M

Sometimes it can't be rebuilt

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Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@pdockal i hear you... i just hope they heal. They dont deserve any of thid

pdockal · 56-60, M

@Lee2025

They might only heal without you

Lee2025 · 31-35, F

@pdockal they maintaining contact. She asked that i stop asking her to fix things. Im respecting those boundries and only communicate when initiated by her.

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