I’m beginning to think I’m a lesbian

First, I'm not a big fan of labels. I don't think it matters if you are bi or lesbian. Perhaps the only use would be to deter men from bothering you.

That being said, let's take this to an extreme. Sometime has a sexual relationship in high school with someone of the opposite sex. Then, for the next forty years dates only same sex and is only attracted to the same sex. Is that person bi or gay. I suspect most people would say gay only, not bi.

I make this point because what you are and what you were don't have to match. You were bi then. You may be lesbian now. Or you may be working to figure it out. You may never date a guy again. You may meet Mr perfect for you tomorrow and he might rekindle everything you feel towards men. Either way, it's just a silly label. You are you.

Date who you want and don't worry to much about it.

I'm with @RosaMarie I don't believe in labels either other than human. You shouldnt doubt yourself for being with someone that makes you happy and you enjoy being with nor is there a need to label it something.

Yes

Just be yourself

🤔.............Maybe you just more into women at this point of your life? I'd say your bi, and not a lesbian. Since you have been married and have kids...........jmo...........

Yeah. Had you a gf before or is this your first

Your happiness is the most important thing in all of this I guess. Who knows what the future holds for you but if you feel better to say your Lesbian rather than Bi I would run with that.


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Yeah that makes sense, though also you could just be bi still, but have a better mental connection with women

I don't want to seem out of line but... Have you considered the possibility that you're just human?

Good for you
Are you happy
Live as you like, you want a man , choose when you want, what you want

you got to do what you enjoy and makes you happy ,, life is to short to be miserable ,,,

If it makes you happy, then it makes sense. Life is short, do what makes you happy

As long as you are happy in your relationship that is what matters.

So long as you’re happy what does it matter whether you are or aren’t 🙂

how did it happened first time that you start seen women?

Leave all options open would be my advice ,

You do what makes you happy.

Hope all continues to go well for u! ♥️

You are what you choose to be.

I don't think that make u lesbian

Do you switch between partners

Go with what makes you happy

It makes complete sense ♥️

It makes a lot of sense

Eat a snickers.

Totally