Is is weird that I get new crushes really easily?

I mean it took me a while to get over my most recent one because we were really connected and talked all the time (honestly we might as well have been dating, cuz we did acted like a couple, but of course we nvr made out or anything cuz nobody's like out of the closet or anything)
(unfortunately still culturally unaccepted in our country, parents, and school so yeah unless you want to be scrutinised as the next topic of gossip)

But I have a new crush on a junior now (which isn't too great cuz seniority is respected and all that and I probably look like some unapproachable person)
It was really quick though, and like I literally was eye-candying a few people before I started crushing on her.
but I feel like i crush on people too easily ahaa is that bad, Im scared cuz of this i wont be ready for a relationship or smth

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LithiumDrop

SeNiOrItY is “respected”. 😹

you should never respect some Mf on the basis that they’re older and therefore superior or deserving of something better than the rest. That’s how you get played ho.

firelaw · 22-25, F

@LithiumDrop That's your opinion sure. I'm assuming you haven't taken culture into consideration. It's different for Asian cultures. I won't speak for all asian cultures, but at least with my Chinese, Indian, Korean and Japanese friends around me, that's how things work. I respected my seniors and my juniors respect my batch. Not saying that it's the best way to have things. In fact in my case it's rather annoying. However, it is the way my community functions, it's not something that can be easily changed.