I Love Jokes And Riddles

I went to visit my family's grave site one lonely morning. I came upon this elderly gentleman just wailing so pathetically I had to walk over to him.
He was kneeling on the ground weeping, so I put my arm on his shoulder. He kept crying over and over "Why did you have to die, Why????"
I said to him, "I'm so sorry friend, is it your wife?"
He didn't look up, he just said, "No, her first husband."