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Public Service Announcement for the day 💖

Next time you want to say something hurtful just stop and take a minute. Write it out if you need to then walk away and come back. Maybe you will look at it differently in 15 minutes time when you have cooled off and can think of the impact that words have.

I am certainly not perfect and I have said things I shouldn’t but I try hard to Spread Love 💗 Not Hate.

I know I have a group of haters here and I am sure they will see this on their alts but I am one of those people where words hurt me no matter where they come from, I wish it were different but it’s not.

Thank you to the kind people here, you don’t know what that means to me 💖💜💙💗
Lilymoon · F Best Comment
Tell them to kiss your arse 🤭

Lilymoon · F
@iamonfire696 Haaaa thank you and thanks for BC 😜... stay positive 😊
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Lilymoon thank you for being a friend and making me laugh. Have a great day 🌸.
Lilymoon · F
@iamonfire696 You as well 🤗

Punxi · 26-30, F
Well said. I think maybe every crowd on earth, virtual or otherwise contains a group or two of haters. All could use a dose of this truth.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Punxi I don’t need everyone to like me because that’s unattainable for anyone but why act awful towards a person online. It’s silly and immature. I am here to laugh and make connections. I have said things I shouldn’t have but I have apologized for it.
Punxi · 26-30, F
@iamonfire696 No guru but study such behavior academically. Many situations in our society offer an opportunity for such behavior. An online, anonymous forum creates a ideal one. Statistically and unfortunately, as I speak of our gender; its women in search of hierarchy that gather such " cliques " blindly recruiting men to further their efforts.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Punxi you are completely correct about that.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
Regardless of what you say, arseholes are everywhere and they get joy from trying to destroy good decent people
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@nedkelly this is so true
SW-User
True. Give yourself time to see from a calmer and hopefully non reactive state of mind.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User thank you for saying that. I have stupidly cried over some things here in the past 2 days and losing my grandma hasn’t helped me. It just really puts things into perspective. I don’t know why anyone would put forth so much negative energy towards someone.
SW-User
@iamonfire696 first, I am so sorry for your loss. I can imagine how upsetting it may be.
Unhappy people, if they don't find the right way to come out of that feeling they hold can get that way .. they may not even be intentional about it or they may. But the thing is, it's not your responsibility to figure this out.
Your responsibility is for you to draw boundaries so their negativity doesn't taint you.
Be well. 🤗
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User thank you. I am sure trying to do this. I appreciate your kind words 💖.
Whyme · 46-50, M
You are a gold hearted person and i do wish you didnt worry so much or even think of how others perceive you we dont get along but i have no ill will or thoughts of you not that you should care some people just dont anyway hope you have a fabulous week and hope your not in pain
Whyme · 46-50, M
@iamonfire696 if someone pointing out the truth is insulting thats your issue not theres
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Whyme no it’s your issue. All I said was I wish that wouldn’t have happened and you attacked me again. You have a problem.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Whyme reported and blocked
VirginMatchmaker · 46-50, M
Wonderfully well put. I don't understand why you'd have any haters. You've always been kind and nice to me. I'm sorry people hurt you with their words. Hugs
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@VirginMatchmaker thank you. See the man on my post here being a jerk to me though.
PTCdresser57 · 61-69, M
Haters should just go away
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@PTCdresser57 I agree with this
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
It appears to me that most online hate is a result of jealousy.
They are not getting the attention and validation that they are looking for so they try to compensate by belittling and tearing down others
Wishing you a beautiful day
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@GJOFJ3 I think this is very true. It makes me sad for them to feel that way. Thank you for always being so kind to me. I hope you have a lovely day 💖.
SW-User
I used to do that in past. Keep things to myself and give others free pass. What time taught me, it's only me who was doing all the hardwork such as seeing from other perspective, not them. They kept on injecting poison and I kept on being the person who needs to be considerate, which eventually affected me horribly..

If someone has told you something offensive/hurtful in full consciousness, you should reply them accordingly. Thinking they'll change & see from other angle and be considerate to your feelings is foolishness.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User I unblocked someone here in hope they would be mature and stop but that wasn’t the case and I will never do it again.
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
Try to make it a good day, youre awesome🤗
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Virgo79 that’s a good idea, thank you 💗
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
@iamonfire696 now lets all cheer up and have some fun😁🍻
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Virgo79 sounds good to me 💗
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
If someone doesn’t like someone they should just cut them out of their lives, virtual or irl. And people feeling the need to tell you why they don’t like you is a special kind of hate. Saying they are just being honest and speaking truth is a pathetic justification for abhorrent behavior.

Good luck finding a happier experience here.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@StevetheSleeve I don’t need everyone to like me. I just want the haters to block and forget about me. I can assure you I am not special enough to keep talking about and making posts about. There’s so many other things to put energy towards.
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
@iamonfire696 Oh man. You are so correct. For the record, I have always found you to be pleasant. 😊
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@StevetheSleeve thank you for that. You honestly don’t know what that means to me 💞
SW-User
The last time i made a post similar to this, about stopping one's self from spreading hate, i got attacked and was asked "so you are saying we cannot say what we think?" And other similar questions that was clearly meant to twist the post into something else.

Very sad minds some people choose to have.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User Well if you can see Whyme on this post you can see he came at me.

I don’t really understand what’s so hard about this. We are interacting online so why be so negative? I have run into some “mean girls” here. I have no interest in that. I have cried a few times in the last few days over posts that were made about me. It as hard to see people that were friends comment but I don’t think they knew.

I am sorry you were met with that attitude. You are so positive and this place is lucky to have you. I appreciate that you want to show positivity here. I haven’t been perfect but I certainly don’t set out to hurt people. Please keep being you 💖.
Azn808 · 31-35, M
Well said. The world needs more of this
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Azn808 Thank you 💖
smiler2012 · 56-60
a good ideology nice in theory if you can do it. but not always easy to carry out if you are beyond the point of reason with somebody [iamonfire696]
smiler2012 · 56-60
@iamonfire696 well i suppose that is the answer than send up your blood pressure on a worthless piece of shit
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@smiler2012 well why continue with the hate? A man was insulting me on this thread and instead of being hateful back I just blocked him instead.
smiler2012 · 56-60
TexChik · F
😉👍🏻
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@TexChik thanks for being a friend 💖
TexChik · F
@iamonfire696 absolutely! Thank you too . 😊
SW-User
I agree 100% with you. I’ve said things I regret out of anger without pausing to think about it. It’s best to take a deep breath and think about the consequences of our words.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User thank you. I have said stuff too that I wish I hadn’t but I try to apologize if given the opportunity. You are a good person 💖.
Jinxie · 51-55, F
If you can’t be kind, don’t be a dick. Keep spreading the love 🖤
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Jinxie I agree
SW-User
Wise and kind words from a wise, kind, and beautiful person.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SW-User thank you 💜
That's good advice
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SlippingAway I wish more people would take it.
@iamonfire696 I need to take it too, sometimes I am quick to anger if I just stepped away thought about it I'd probably be better off
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SlippingAway I learned it through counselling and a management course. It’s better to step back from a situation and clear your mind for a moment. Even if you need to write out those thoughts to get them out do that but don’t send them when you feel that way because it can be so destructive. It’s not easy to NOT react in the moment either it’s takes time and patience to do it but it really does pay off in the end. You will be happier and better for it 💖.
SweetMae · 70-79, F
I am sorry this is happening to you. 🤗
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@SweetMae thank you. I am just very grateful for lovely people like you here 💜
Icarus16 · 51-55, M
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Icarus16 glad you agree
The same goes to all drama mongerers - blocking others just for the reasons known best to them and spoiling the fun time.
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@sspec I block people based on their interactions with me. I am not letting anyone insult me.
Myself11 · 61-69, M
🤗🤗🤗🤗
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Myself11 thank you 💖
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@Darksideinthenight2 I agree with this 💖
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@ChemDawg you are so right and I am sorry it’s happening to you too. It’s really very pathetic on their part though isn’t it. Have nothing better to do then try and stir up drama on a website.
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iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@ChemDawg right. Makes posts about me multiple times and says I am the obsessed one and I don’t even know this person….hmmmm ok then 🤣

 
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