Public Service Announcement for the day 💖

Next time you want to say something hurtful just stop and take a minute. Write it out if you need to then walk away and come back. Maybe you will look at it differently in 15 minutes time when you have cooled off and can think of the impact that words have.

I am certainly not perfect and I have said things I shouldn’t but I try hard to Spread Love 💗 Not Hate.

I know I have a group of haters here and I am sure they will see this on their alts but I am one of those people where words hurt me no matter where they come from, I wish it were different but it’s not.

Thank you to the kind people here, you don’t know what that means to me 💖💜💙💗

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

SW-User

True. Give yourself time to see from a calmer and hopefully non reactive state of mind.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User it’s always the best way. That’s why I don’t react to the hate.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 that's really mature and healthy of you. 💙

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User we are mainly adults here even though some don’t act that way.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 eh, maturity and biological age have no bearing on each other. It takes a lot more.
But you do you and hopefully others who are still finding the maturity can catch up to you.
We do not need to stoop...they need to rise.

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User thank you for saying that. I have stupidly cried over some things here in the past 2 days and losing my grandma hasn’t helped me. It just really puts things into perspective. I don’t know why anyone would put forth so much negative energy towards someone.

SW-User

@iamonfire696 first, I am so sorry for your loss. I can imagine how upsetting it may be.
Unhappy people, if they don't find the right way to come out of that feeling they hold can get that way .. they may not even be intentional about it or they may. But the thing is, it's not your responsibility to figure this out.
Your responsibility is for you to draw boundaries so their negativity doesn't taint you.
Be well. 🤗

iamonfire696 · 41-45, F

@SW-User thank you. I am sure trying to do this. I appreciate your kind words 💖.