How do you know if you're ugly?
Haven't been with a woman in years that's not a good sign. I don't want a girlfriend or sex or anything like that but sometimes it would be nice to sleep next to someone.
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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
I dont think its about being ugly or unattractive. In times like these you need a best friend who you can lie next to and talk about anything under the sun with nothing sexual, no awkwardness just open hearts and friendship. I call that being on a grown folks level.
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@AngelUnforgiven you need a certain level of physical attractiveness to get a woman. I agree with the best friend part love is overrated and fleeting.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@bushi2020 you sound like you have some self esteem issues, if you cant love and accept yourself then you cannot expect anyone else to either. Because thats how you push people away with self loathing and constantly beating yourself up. It doesn't matter whether anyone sees you as attractive because if they were truly your friend you would be the most beautiful person in their eyes anyway.
bushi2020 · 36-40, M
@AngelUnforgiven lol I don't think anyone loves themselves I think that the best we can do is respect ourselves. I see things realistically I think I understand women well enough to know what they like.