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Do you think people see you as the “ marrying type” or the “ one night stand “ type?

Not necessarily people who know you, but just people in general. Do you look , dress, and act like the type that others want a relationship and marriage with, or do you think that they look at you and want to have sex with you but then they keep looking for someone to marry or have a relationship with? I have noticed that about myself- I see guys that I know and think “ he’s hot, but definitely not someone I would date or be serious with!” And I always wonder if people think that when they see me.
Queendragonfly · 31-35, F
I have been told I have this sweetness over me that men searches in a long term partner, I was often called cute over hot as younger too and that meant cute is partner material and hot means a booty call. I remember as a teen I got upset because no guy called me hot but they called me beautiful, cute, sweet, etc. Now I know why.

My current partner told me I radiated girlfriend material when he first saw me. I guess that sweetness still dominates.
Mardrae · 56-60, F
@Queendragonfly that’s really awesome!! I don’t wear hardly any makeup or dye my hair, and a young guy at work told me the other day that he thought I was a sweet old lady who baked cookies 🍪 for people at a church. Lol. He was very surprised to find out that I have 25 tattoos and I cuss like a sailor all the time. 😂. Because of my tattoos, I probably look like the booty call type, but I am not at all.
ElizabethThorn · 26-30, F
Neither. I think both are childish
PoetryNEmotion · 61-69, F
I am a long term woman. I am attractive. I know the kind of man I want. One night stands are not my way.
Hopefully as the “taken” type because I’m already happily married.
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
Well I've been proposed to twice so 🤷🏻‍♀️
Iammona · F
@DearAmbellina2113 by who and did you turn them down
DearAmbellina2113 · 41-45, F
@Iammona my first bf proposed when I was 20 yrs old but I felt too young to be tied down. Then another bf proposed when I was 36. I accepted the proposal but broke it off later because I couldn't stand his family and he never had my back when they would bully me.
revenant · F
Marrying type. I am easily proposed is me who is not too sure ...
Personally, I think most people see me as a stone. They don't think of me in these terms. Just some random person who is there but "who is it again? ahh.."
BackyardShaman · 61-69, M
I think it likely depends on what the person looking at me wants for themselves.
Mardrae · 56-60, F
@BackyardShaman makes sense
startingover23 · 51-55, M
How about "failed at marriage and don't want sex with either"?
HappyCamper74 · 46-50, M
Probably the "better than nothing" type is what women view me as.
I don't think they view me as either type.
Steve42 · 56-60, M
People don't see me at all usually.
Carissimi · 61-69, F
I’m invisible.
Mardrae · 56-60, F
@Carissimi me too
antonioioio · 61-69, M
Interesting 🤗
originnone · 56-60, M
I'm just a loser.
Mardrae · 56-60, F
Y'all gon' have sex or marry?@originnone @Mardrae
Mardrae · 56-60, F
@TheManHimself neither one 😂
iamonfire696 · 36-40, F
No clue and don’t particularly care

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