Do you think people see you as the “ marrying type” or the “ one night stand “ type?

Not necessarily people who know you, but just people in general. Do you look , dress, and act like the type that others want a relationship and marriage with, or do you think that they look at you and want to have sex with you but then they keep looking for someone to marry or have a relationship with? I have noticed that about myself- I see guys that I know and think “ he’s hot, but definitely not someone I would date or be serious with!” And I always wonder if people think that when they see me.

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Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

I have been told I have this sweetness over me that men searches in a long term partner, I was often called cute over hot as younger too and that meant cute is partner material and hot means a booty call. I remember as a teen I got upset because no guy called me hot but they called me beautiful, cute, sweet, etc. Now I know why.

My current partner told me I radiated girlfriend material when he first saw me. I guess that sweetness still dominates.

Mardrae · 56-60, F

@Queendragonfly that’s really awesome!! I don’t wear hardly any makeup or dye my hair, and a young guy at work told me the other day that he thought I was a sweet old lady who baked cookies 🍪 for people at a church. Lol. He was very surprised to find out that I have 25 tattoos and I cuss like a sailor all the time. 😂. Because of my tattoos, I probably look like the booty call type, but I am not at all.