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Massage therapist

Hi so this is a question for anyone but guys may be able to help most. So I’ve had a massage therapist for years and he recently retired. I have very bad back spasms and that guy could always get all my knots relaxed.

The chiropractor office he worked at where I’ve also been a client for years has hired two therapists to replace him. They are both females. Never had a massage from a female before and am a lil concerned about having female hands on my body( except for my wifes). Am I being a lil paranoid? I guess concern is what happens if I get aroused. I’ve heard this can happen

Anyone?
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PatKirby · M
It won't be the first time for them, they should have plenty of experience and know how to keep you calm. Meaning no 'happy endings'.

However the one that I got not only knew her stuff, but we ended up in a relationship. You've been warned. 😂
emmasfriend · 46-50, F
Just relax !

I had similar concerns the first time being massaged by a male, but he was very professional. And effective.
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@emmasfriend effective as in relaxed all your muscles or in arousing you?
emmasfriend · 46-50, F
@Rickinnc

The treatment of my lower spine was effective in dealing with back pain.

The massage of the buttocks and thighs was thorough, and a pleasant experience. I soon became relaxed about how much I was exposing.
It was all very professional and correct.
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@emmasfriend oh I’m so glad you had a great experience. Yes I do get so relaxed thay sometimes after I just want to take a nap on the table. There are toned when my muscles are tight or in spasm that it can be a lil unpleasant bit she always manages to be able to lissen them And I can agree habing your butt massaged is a pleasant experience. Now when she massages my thighs and I’m on my back, that’s when I really have to try and relax and not get aroused. It just feels too good.
James1956 · 61-69, M
I’ve gotten massages from a woman before, she was professional and never had an issue.
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@James1956 thanks James. I have had some very awesome ones in the last 7 years. They know how to handle each situation and it’s not like I thought it could be.
Would you have a problem being operated on by a female surgeon? How about a female dentist? Hair cut from a female barber? They're all professionals. Just make sure you go to a reputable massage parlor. A lot of the AMPs are good and legitimate, just don't order off the side menu lol.
@aboveaverageaveragejoe great response 👏🏼
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@CookieCrisp I agree with Joe and have found it’s not like I thought it may be. Thanks for the comment Cookie
@Rickinnc Of course, the other option I forgot about, get a male massage therapist. That might put an end to your boners.
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
Just wanted you all to know that this was a very old draft from like 2019. I was doing another new post and accidentally posted this one. But I’d like to still hear any experiences.
WormMan · 56-60, M
To be honest I would rather have a female therapist, Dr, dentist etc.
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@WormMan I agree, as I’ve gotten older I find that these health care professionals that are female tend to listen better than male counterparts.
Just my experience but my health care concerns seem to have been better addressed by females.
WormMan · 56-60, M
@Rickinnc I totally agree
Confined · 56-60, M
Enjoy the experience.
Kathleen23 · 41-45, F
@Rickinnc once in a month and i do go to the gym almost everyday
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@Kathleen23 I dm you. I get them twice a month. Yiu do look quite fit
Kathleen23 · 41-45, F
@Rickinnc thanks
Massageman · 70-79, M
Perhaps you could explain what techniques he used that worked and they could try them too???
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@Massageman not understanding the question? What were you addressing in my comments?
Massageman · 70-79, M
@Rickinnc" I have very bad back spasms and that guy could always get all my knots relaxed." What specific techniques did your therapist use to get all the knots relaxed?
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
Ask your wife what she thinks of that.
Thevy29 · 41-45, M
Keep your towel on, You'll be right.
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@Thevy29 they never let you be without it
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
Why.fight it?
PatKirby · M
@fanuc2013

Roll with it I say.
Asianpersuasion · 36-40, M
It happens and it wont be the first time they've seen it.
Rickinnc · 51-55, M
@Asianpersuasion that’s what I’ve learned Asian. They are pros and just roll with it when it happens. It’s funny or should say interesting to me what part of my body they are massageing when I can get aroused. She was massage my scalp and around my ears and it gave me like an instant hardon. Wouldn’t have ever imagine that. There and massaging my feet as well have that reaction
Virgo79 · 61-69, M
You're being all paranoid 😕
Just my opinion
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@pride49 I don't think that's irrational at all. It can certainly happen. Go with who you feel comfortable with.
CreyvinMoorhead · 36-40, M

 
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