i dont understand people with children

i never understood people that has kids that still want a life . i mean there is nothing wrong with people that want to go out every now and then ,but be responsible and make time and plan things before just leaving your kids with someone just because you think they don't have nothing to do.

i made a statement the other day about if i had kids that i wouldn't want them out of my sight and that my own family even close friends wont be having , holding ,or keeping my child especially out of my sight .I also think people will mistreat my child the way they treat me . i am constantly hearing thing like " children are just like their parents". i understand that but it it also different from having to care for someone else's child that you do not know about.

maybe im just different but when i do decide to have a child i will be financially stable and be prepared for one . once i have a child play time is over .my children will come first and party time with people who dont care about you days will be no more .i will have my kids everywhere with me if not i will be paying a professional to care for my kids not someone who is not doing nothing with their life and are miserable.