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I always had a part of me appreciate the elderly

Seeing grey hairs means time and memories. In it is usually some form of wisdom

The more I poke at them randomly as I'm walking by, they open up to be so warmly and tell me such beautiful stories

There's so much personality in age that cannot be described. I genuinely think that if younger people connected with and were raised by a community feeling with the elderly, so many missing role models would just fill in

It's like free gems passing down for free

When it comes to those who aged in spite, pain, and bitterness, then I can understand (partially)
But doesn't that instill in you the notion to give them the hug they probably needed for years? Because they weren't born bitter that way. They probably lost a bit of faith you could restore

And those who survived long enough, you'd be so surprised with what you can learn or what people have been through

Maybe it's just the etiquettes I have been taught but even if it's foreign, my goodness will you find it worthwhile to just talk and ask a random question or ask random advice or hear a random story from the next person older than you that you find just enjoying the random walk on a Saturday
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4meAndyou · F Best Comment
Yes, all of that is quite true. After my mother died, I got a job working with the elderly, and, to be honest, I fell in love with MANY of the residents of the nursing home where I worked for a time. Later, I worked with patients with Alzheimer's and dementia after I had trained to that specialty, and I became VERY attached to my patients.
AverageMuslim · 26-30, M
@4meAndyou aw, that's so lovely 😄

Me personally, I think it's huge and important to take care of our parents and anyone who is older. Their do lots but don't get seen
4meAndyou · F
@AverageMuslim In the United States, many families send their elderly parents to nursing homes, or hire nursing aids to care for them in their own homes. It is unfortunate, but many adult children of elderly parents don't have the time or the patience to care for their elderly parents at home...so they get sent off to live in nursing homes.
AverageMuslim · 26-30, M
@4meAndyou that's a hard thing to hear and you're awesome to take care of them all especially when they're vulnerable

It's lovely what you did 😊
4meAndyou · F
@AverageMuslim It was I who was blessed...to know those people.
4meAndyou · F
@AverageMuslim THANK you for best comment!
AverageMuslim · 26-30, M
@4meAndyou I should be thanking you 😊