what's the answer when you think you're having a midlife crisis

Well...the ex bought TWO motorcycles, one after the other. If you can picture a very large fat guy riding a Suzuki that was too small for him...and then buying a Harley but wearing a little bucket helmet and big white plastic cats eye sunglasses AND his MC Hammer pants...now THAT was a midlife crisis. 🤣🤣🤣

Talking is a good idea, making time to discuss what matters, be it with friends of a similar age or a talking charity . Airing your thoughts instead of keeping them inside, would be so much healthiest option.

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pick up a new hobby

Being aware of it is a good start.

Don't worry about things that could happen...it may never!

Buy a box of condoms and try to figure out how to use them without reading the instructions written on the box. If you can do it successfully the first time, then you're not having a mid-life crisis.