There are a few men older than me that I am platonically in love with them

@PepsiColaP Plato talked about the teacher's love, transmitting love for the subject to the student, that consequently falls in love with both the subject and the teacher.. Platonic love... If you carefully see it, he's right, always a passionate teacher transfers her passion to her students. And just like that, students are in love 😍

@being i love this

@PepsiColaP yes I know, just make sure it remains platonic otherwise shit get complicated 🤣🤣

@being I remember now properly, when I was a teen I liked my cousin in a platonic way too.

@SW-User see You can relate lol

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@CrazyMusicLover yes... usually when there's such a big gap, it's certainly unforgettable.. but it can be unimportant from the side of the older person..:( at least that's how it worked for me when I was dating a younger guy lol

@being It is very possible.

@CrazyMusicLover I've also dated an older guy when I was younger and I believe he must have felt like that..:(

@being I think so. We usually have two emotions with our spouse/gf/bf/etc. One is the feeling of love/respect/care for them, which can have different levels of deepness depending on your relationship. Other is of lust, that is more or less depend on your desires/basic instincts, not on your emotions. But when you share such moments with them, it can make you connect more deeply at level of emotions with them. But such emotions you feel that have grown out of physical relations can be one sided, because your physical closeness made you connect at emotional level with them, not their emotional response that made you develop the emotions.

@ABCDEF7 you know only lately I can understand what you mean. Till sometime ago, there was no separation, all feelings seemed one chaotic ball 🏈

@being Yes, it's sad, it happens to many. I can understand. That's why I prefer the path from emotions/love leading to that complete bonding, not from physical connect leading to the expected bonding/relationship. The first one is expected to last long, more strong and true..

@fakable you're right I'm limiting my spectrum!!!

@MartinTheFirst that I want them all and time is limiting and also, being just one human is limiting too 🙈

@being Well in that case it's not platonic love, it sounds very much like unplatonic love lol. Platonic love is the kind you have for your mother.

@MartinTheFirst no it's not exactly that.. and I'm kind of joking, not 100% though, there's some truth 🤣🤣

@being You said a few older men but only mentioned 2

@TjNewton yes the two I have in mind:p

@TjNewton yes the two I have in mind:p