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Wonder if my dad had a mini stroke

For past couple weeks now, my dad's food intake has gone way down and he occasionally shakes his dominant hand, involuntary. He's in a nursing home and he did have a stroke several years ago. He now says odd things too, like I got a new TV, when he didn't. And he didn't know his roommate name. But he used to just act silly for years, and would fib things/act surprised. But this seems different. And he is now occasionally forgetting the name of his medicine.

His voice seems very light too almost weak. But he denied being weak. The staff doesn't seem to recognize any changes but they're never in there long.
My mom went in today and asked for a doctor to evaluate him or do a brain scan. But I know the doctor is not in until Monday. I wonder whether to make him go to the ER? He himself denied being weak but his hand can barely lift a cup. I don't know to wait until Monday. 😕
Rereading this myself, I think I'm going to push to go to ER tomorrow even if he decline at first.
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Sakshichoudhary · 22-25, FNew
Given his stroke history, it's worth getting him checked ASAP. Pushing for an ER visit tomorrow seems like a good idea 💪. His denial might be due to not realizing how much he's struggling. Have you talked to the nursing home staff about your concerns? 🤔
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Sakshichoudhary I did talk to them about my concerns and they did what they did in the past, dismissed it. I actually got heart palpitations going above them, but I called 911. He was so weak and listless. And I'm glad I did. They found his lung had fluid in it, infection and swollen lymph nodes in stomach. No wonder he's been so weak. So he's in there now and will be a few days. I'm glad I did listen to myself after all.
funfan · 51-55, M
Oh no 😢 I'm definitely with the consensus in getting him to the ER. Dehydration is a serious issue and he might need an IV drip. Hopefully, it's not a mini-stroke and something as simple as that could be the solution! 🤞
Elisbch · M
I just got out of the hospital. I went to a Convenient Care first and they insisted on an ambulance take me to the hospital.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Elisbch Oh sorry to hear. What was the issue?
Elisbch · M
@Coralmist

Please see DM
Elisbch · M
Yes, so that for his own good. Hang in there. He should probably really go by ambulance but he can refuse them when they get there. I hope you can get this done anyway possible. 🙏🏻🙏🏻
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
Don't wait! Take him to an after-hours clinic that specializes in stroke diagnosis, or to an ER. Better safe than sorry!
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@fanuc2013 I agree. When he seemed dehydrated I asked do you want to go ER a few days ago. But he said no. I just hope he agrees to go.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
I hope you can talk him into going to the ER.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Cigarguy I truly hope too..thank you 🌸
JoyfulSilence · 51-55, M
I hope he gets the care he needs.
Monalisasmith86 · 36-40, F
Why don’t you hire in home care instead so this way he stays at home and gets taken care of
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Monalisasmith86 I suggested that and Bec my mom is so volatile and can't deal with people well, she declined that. So had him go nursing home. But he's not getting the true care he needs
Monalisasmith86 · 36-40, F
@Coralmist why doesn’t your mum become his carer she can also get carers payment from SS for it
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Monalisasmith86 I'll ask her. She couldn't handle the stress though, and she's extremely erratic in moods. But if she got paid Maybe it could be an incentive for her, ty
Poppies · 61-69, F
I think going ASAP is the right thing to do.
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Poppies Ty so much. I just hope he doesn't minimize it and decline. Because he declined the other day when I offered to go in Bec he was dehydrated. I will really push it. Ty ✨

 
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