im so lame 😩 im meeting someone on saturday and i have to tell him he cant kiss me

i get real anxious about stds and stis. no smooches till everyone gets tested im sooo sorry 😭 the last time i went on a date the guy walked me to my car and i leaned soooo far back away from him but he still kissed me 🙅‍♀ the last 3 people to kiss me i didn't want kisses from

but also he's only in state for a book convention and i dont want a ldr at all which he already knows

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OlderSometimesWiser · F

Just throw on these, it’ll put your mind at ease.

HootyTheNightOwl

SEXUALLY transmitted diseases??? Unless you happen to have a different anatomy to the rest of us... your sexual organs are in your pants.

Herpes zoster is a risk, but there's no tests for the cold sore virus.

Friendlyperson · 26-30, F

Stds aren't really transmitted through kissing...

NativePortlander1970

@Friendlyperson Herpes is

Friendlyperson · 26-30, F

@NativePortlander1970

HSV 1 is NOT an STD... it is transmitted orally, by kissing or just eating from the same spoon...etc.
HSV 2 IS the STD... and it is transmitted sexually.

Hsv1 could be an std if you have oral... but then could be all other type of bacteria like salmonella, shigella...etc. Which was so uncommon in the past ages.

Friendlyperson · 26-30, F

HSV: Herpes simplex virus

CountScrofula · 41-45, M

It's very fair for you to set and communicate your boundaries.

At the same time you should arm yourself with knowledge on the transmission risk for serious infections through kissing because everything I know is that its fairly low-risk behaviour if there's no obvious illness like a cold sore. This is more for your own anxiety than anything.

NoGamesTolerated · F

Wow

NativePortlander1970

Personally I am not a fan of kissing, my late ex fiancee always seemed she was trying to eat my face off, and it grossed me out.

Frostcloud · F

@NativePortlander1970 i also really dont like kissing. i was never super into the idea and then i got into my first relationship and it wasnt a super good one and kissing him literally made me feel like 🤢 i didnt love kissing my last bf either but at least i didnt want to gag the whole time lol

Fertilization · 36-40, F

@NativePortlander1970 Sounds like a gentleman. 🎩

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