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Four hours into half term holiday and my daughter managed to get herself grounded

🤦‍♀

She went out when she was asked not to, switched off her phone, and was rude to my wife when she eventually came home. I was out working at the time. Got a text message saying I needed to enforce the sanction next day. Thanks 🙄

Daughter very unimpressed at being kept inside on a sunny day and did a lot of noisy stomping around in case I was in any doubt 😅 We had a "little talk" at lunchtime which inevitably ended with her very remorseful and tearful, and me in tears as well because she is so earnest and tender-hearted and never really means to be naughty 😥

Which is how my wife came to find us snuggled up on the sofa together in our pyjamas, eating hummus, watching youtube videos. Wife gets the idea that I haven't taken the grounding seriously enough, now she is more annoyed with me than my daughter 🤷‍♀

Perhaps I should be grounded instead. It might be nice. At least I could read my novel in peace 🙂
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F Best Comment
I ended many groundings snuggled up with someone on the couch. Usually Dad or Grandpa, and then Mom (always the one who grounded me) would walk in and be like, "Glad to see you two are having fun!!" in that Mom-only tone. 😳
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@sarabee1995 It's difficult being a teenager and sooo unfair to be kept in during the holidays 😭😭😭
Justme264 · 70-79, M
@SunshineGirl But did your daughter not deserve it?
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@SunshineGirl Thanks for best comment!

Cinderellagirl · 16-17, F
Well at least she is sorry for being naughty and can learn.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Cinderellagirl She's going to be helping me with chores around the home for a couple of days 🙂
Cinderellagirl · 16-17, F
@SunshineGirl She sounds very sweet
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
When I was bad, my parents would kick me out of house, LOL! I preferred staying in.

My dad used to say, "I don't care what you do, just do it in somebody else's yard. And don't get caught."

But I was a quiet nerd who seldom caused trouble. I cannot say the same about kids in the neighborhood. I saw some bad stuff.
TexChik · F
The phone thing is a deal breaker. I wont tolerate my kids not being reachable. 3 days without it tends to make them willing to comply with my wishes.
MommyLucy · 36-40, F
Awwww! 💖💖💖 I think she should definitely keep her phone on when outside for her own safety in case she needs to get hold of you or your wife! 😇😇😇 Her safety should come first but bless her I'm a total softie so I hope she won't be grounded for long! 😥😥😥 My middle girl Isabella can be naughty too! 😝😝😝 You are both fantastic mothers for absolute sure and of course your daughter is still a total star! 💫💫💫
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@MommyLucy We let her go to a sleepover as planned last night, but now she's going to be helping me around the home for a couple of days 🙂
MommyLucy · 36-40, F
@SunshineGirl Bless her she'll be a great helper for you and I hope she enjoys her sleepover tonight! 🤗🤗🤗
Livingwell · 61-69, M
You're doing just fine. Those moments are precious. And will be remembered by both.
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
You got young miss admit she was wrong & see that you were correct. That's so very important. Just be on the lookout for herself thinking waterworks is an easy out to any misbehavior.

I see that unfortunately your post about teens & rules is bringing out the spanking freaks/creeps.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@ineedadrink The tears are genuine, not cynical. School holidays were always difficult for her in the past when she was in care. She's taking a bit of time to adjust herself . . she'll get there eventually 🙂
ineedadrink · 51-55, M
@SunshineGirl It sounds as if she's in a wonderful situation to help her adjust and succeed in life.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
sounds like you got to the heart of the problem and the "why" of her sanctions

and touched her heart - way more effective that spanking or grounding

touch her heart and maybe there won't be a "next time"
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Pretzel We would never use physical punishment. She's adjusting to life outside a care home and being a young adult. We've got plenty of time 🙂
hunkalove · 61-69, M
I'm still grounded! Now I waste time on a pitiful crapola bottom feeder website.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@hunkalove Write poetry instead 🙂
hunkalove · 61-69, M
@SunshineGirl "There once was a gal named Sunshine...."
dale74 · M
Maybe you should ground your wife that way everybody in the house is grounded
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@dale74 That would be confusing 😅
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
She needs to understand the rules and accept them
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Sometimes there’s just no getting ahead!!
Secretsmile · 51-55, F
No offense but there might be some interference from your wife. Idk it depends on your situation but I would feel like that myself if a step parent tried to discipline me.
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@Secretsmile We are her legal guardians. Recently adopted her from local authority care.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
One very important part of beong a parent or partner is to earn a reputation for keeping ALL your promises... Then everyone knows where they stand..😷
SunshineGirl · 36-40, F
@whowasthatmaskedman Indeed 🙂
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