I kinda stay in my own lane. If I click with someone that’s great, admiration and respect have room to grow. I really don’t allow for much chance of a relationship becoming one sided. If I don’t sense reciprocity within a short while, I just move on down the road.

I try to not admire anyone. Everyone only shares what they find suitable to share. I don't know anyone's full story. If someone keeps ignoring my comments on their posts or replies in a style that rubs me the wrong way, I tend to mute them to not be tempted to comment again. It doesn't mean I hate or dislike them, just that I come here to relax and have fun in a non-committing way, not to rack my brains trying to decipher what was this or that interaction about, if someone is patronizing or rolls their eyes at me. There's enough of that shit in real life as it is. 😅

I give people a chance for awhile. The algorithm is weird and we all have real lives, things slip by us.

But if I notice it's a constant with someone I admire, I will say something.

If it's someone who has made it clear they're uninterested in me, I just let them go.

I think the better way to handle this is to just respect boundaries and do whatever makes you feel okay (not super happy, not super sad, just so-so).

If you see their posts and feel like hearting or dropping a comment, then do it.
If you don’t feel like it - then don’t.

It’s pretty much useless to overthink something or someone that doesn’t give you the time of their day. So why bother?

That’s why you have to admire someone that can reciprocate same admiration with you, on same energy level.

It’s an upsetting situation to be in but I just tend to be myself, be honest but positive. I would still heart (or other emoji) their posts, but maybe keep my comments for when their posts are really something I want to comment on. I’m friends with people on here that really didn’t like me at first, it just took a while.

I assume the "fish and chips" option means that I do not give a sheet. I picked that.

I do not "admire" users on a forum. It is easy to imagine someone on the web to be this fantastic person but the REAL person behind the posts is probably nothing like what we think.

Even a few of the people on here that I enjoy reading their posts are NOT people I would want to be around in real life.

Just remember - for some odd reason, everyone on the web is brilliant and beautiful, but for some reason, almost no one is such in real life.

I continue for a little while to make sure they didn't just overlook one or two comments, but when the pattern becomes clear, I respect their wish to not interact.

I respond to all of the comments to my posts in some shape or form.

Except those whom use the platform as an excuse to toss in a random sexual statement.

In reverse, I reply my two cents to posts not expecting a reply. Cool when I do tho'.

🤷🏻

For the most part i'm unaware of anyone finds me annoying or anything like that, I reply to certain people regularly only periodically, as I tend to prefer my own company no matter how nice others can be.

I’m learning to be more neutral about things..
But also try to look inward and see what it is I might have done to cause it…

If try to be compassionate and receptive at first. If that happens for awhile and I get no response, I move on. I don't want to feel awkward or make someone else seem awkward.

I'm fairly good at telling when someone doesn't care for me, and the feeling is mutual, I'm sure.

It depends to what extent. If they heart my posts, I heart theirs. It's reciprocal. I personally do think that men tend to be very pushy on here and don't know when to back off

I have learned to not give it much thought . You never know what someone is going through..

As long as it's just online it doesn't really bother me. I can always just not reply on their comment.

Salt & vinegar on my fish & chips please, I'll save the apple sauce for pork.

I'm ok with blocking whoever makes me uncomfortable in any way

Honestly, if they don't appreciate me, it’s their loss! I'm like a glitter bomb – fabulous, shiny, and impossible to ignore!

I guess some people just can't handle all this charisma! I mean, do they not realize I'm the unicorn in a field of donkeys? 🦄💅

I’ll just keep being my fabulous self while sipping my imaginary cocktail and waiting for someone to recognize the masterpiece that is ME! 🍹💁‍♀

I block users who don't like me. It's usually a political disagreement. I would HOPE that anyone who finds me THAT annoying would block ME!!!

I was never sure of her age but it must have been close to mine.

I liked the fact she was honest & down to earth BUT after giving her hints for sometime with NO replies.


I muted her

I know how busy I can get, so hopefully that's the reason.

I don`t push myself on anyone. If they like me then great, if not that`s fine too.

now send noods. 😬

Like in the real world, I distance myself.

I would never ignore you

May I have ketchup instead of the apple sauce for the fish and chips please 🙏 😀🤭

The worst is if you invested time and you say something and they ignore you because you figured out who they truly are.

Ignore

Im not everyone's cup of tea......... and thats okay. leave them be.

I weep bitter tears.

it's like a tennis game

you serve it and see if they hit the ball back

if not - look for another player :)

I foolishly keep trying until I end up crying or dying.

Such is my destiny.

I cry and stamp my widdle feeties...