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Sometimes I feel really pathetic

People take breaks here quite frequently...a month, two months, or more. I've never taken longer than a week break here. I feel sad ...and just QUite really SAD. I used to have a social life several years ago...I have nothing now..🙁( but on the flip side I am grateful for wonderful people here🪻💖)
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
Don't feel bad sweetheart I have no real social life never had one in this area my entire social life revolved around my business. So when I went to prison most of that died off now I kill a lot of time try and simply to rebuild move forward and progress. The main interaction I have is with people online and myself. But it is what it is
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Coralmist · 41-45, F
@KingofBones1 People have stepped on me because of my kindness..even a family member humiliated me once when I asked 'are you sure?' About taking something they were giving me. They said 'Stop saying that.' ..(Rudely). I felt horrible. So it is really kind of you to say to stay how I am. Thanks 🍁
KingofBones1 · 46-50, M
@Coralmist look at it this way sweetheart maybe that's God's way of showing you who does not deserve you and the kindness you hold in your heart. I know it can be painful and I'm sorry that you go through that but in the end those are the kinds of people you are better off without so maybe try looking at it this way instead of losing someone you're actually clearing the dust off your shelf to make room for something truly beautiful one day.
Sutten · 36-40, F
I took a 6-month break October 2023 -April 2024 from SW. It was a well-deserved break, I took time to focus on myself. It was a period of enlightenment. Lessons were definitely learnt. A change of scenery can do the world of good. Many don't realise how much they really need a break. Take up a sport or hobby, do something for you.
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Maybe it's time to turn off the computer and go outside and play

(Figure of speech, but you know what I mean)
SSDecontrol · 56-60, M
@candycane

Gee, I wonder what you will be? 🤔
candycane · 31-35, F
SSDecontrol · 56-60, M
@candycane

Sweet! 👍
Jenny1234 · 51-55, F
I spent many years without a social life cuz I was busy with kids. You will know when the time is right for you to get out there are meet people
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Jenny1234 Ty friend 🫂
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
The only people I socialize with are on here. I also talk to my parents, and ocassionally to coworkers. Yet we all work from home, so no random water cooler chats anymore.But we all may be back next year, at least part time.

I am sorry for your sadness.

I am upset today because the weather is perfect yet I have to sit inside all day on the computer. But starting this Friday I will be on vacation for a week. But I am not going anywhere, due to health uncertainties.
Sapio · 51-55, M
We are grateful for you too! Did you get a new phone?
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@Sapio Aww ty friend 🦋 And I did ..good memory!🙂
Hey, however you find what you need is what matters most. I try to take breaks from this place, once was better at it if you measured by time, but then I was on incessantly. Now I come on less, I need less much "pronounced" breaks and if I'm done with here, I just don't sign on.
Fairydust · F
I take breaks, I think it’s good to concentrate on real life. It’s nice to dip in and out when I have more time. I won’t use this place like I used to, I feel I spent way too much time here.
Happy balance 😌
SSDecontrol · 56-60, M
@Fairydust plus you get naughty (which I'm hardly complaining about) 😉
SSDecontrol · 56-60, M
Since you are taking care of a sick family member why don't you join one of those meetup/support groups? Everyone there is in the same boat (and probably about your age)

You'll have plenty to talk about
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
I take long breaks from here quiet often.

Whatever works for you. There are some wonderful people here and im glad thats what makes you stay.
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
You're fine. Come cuddle under this cover with me
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
same same. but just think of what you'd be doing without it. it's better than nothing.
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
Why the change from several years ago
Coralmist · 41-45, F
@BigGuy2 My friends and I have slowly grown apart ...two became selfish and self centered so I stopped contacting them. Another stopped contacting me out of the blue. Not much one can do.
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@Coralmist if it helps, similar has happened to me, so it's not you at fault, that's life 🤷🏼‍♂🤷🏼‍♂🤷🏼‍♂ ... Cest la vie

 
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